There is absolutely nothing there to stop you having a good time sexually. There, it’s time someone said it. If you’re in a loveless marriage then get out of it and have some fun, you only live once you know and there are so many other things to enjoy. I offer this advice to you because I’ve suffered at the hands of fate and have since realised that I need to have a lot more fun than I was having. My wife of 15 years left me last year and to be perfectly honest I think it’s the best things she’s ever done for me. I didn’t do anything wrong apparently, we just drifted apart. I can see what she means actually, and I’m so glad she made the move. We speak often and get along very well as friends now.
I’m quite a sexual person and I have to admit if there was anything I missed about my marriage it was the sex. My wife was always pretty good in this department and I never had any reason to complain, however, since I’ve been single I’ve never had so much fun. I joined a UK sex contacts website to meet other people like me and to basically see what it was all about. I’ve never joined anything like this before; in fact I don’t think I’ve ever joined anything before to be perfectly honest!
This sex contacts site opened my eyes to a world of possibilities. At first I thought it would be populated primarily with hookers trying to charge me for sex once I meet them, but it really isn’t. I never dreamed there would be so many women out there looking for casual sex; I thought this was a man’s game to be honest.
The first woman I met was in her 40s and she was so hot I couldn’t believe my luck. When I was single before I’d have been lucky if a woman like this had even looked at me; I mean, to me this woman was grade A and I actually didn’t expect her to go through with it. However, it turned out that she really went for my type. I suppose I never had the confidence to realise that I was someone’s type, and if that certain someone happened to be very hot indeed then it’s all good. There is no accounting for taste, so they say. Suffice to say she was certainly my type!
We met in the lobby of a hotel in the city and decided to have a couple of drinks. She never even mentioned the sex part of it during our drinks, and I don’t think at that time she really realised I was a first timer at this. When we finished our drinks she simply stood and said: “shall we go to the room now?” in such a matter of fact way that it shocked me. It was then that she realised how new I was to the whole sex contacts business. She was very good about it all and explained how things happen usually. I had a fantastic time and have since seen her probably 15 times now.
This is all about a fantasy of mine. My name is Gloria and I’ve been using the UK sex contacts online for a couple of years now, but in this little story I want to tell you about how I first used the website to fulfil one of my lifetime fantasies.
Now, I’m no spring chicken, I’m 45 years old and I’m recently divorced. This has nothing to do with my sex dating by the way; it has more to do with a husband who considered fucking hookers to be part of our agreement when we took our marriage vows. Well this housewife wasn’t having any more of it, I took him for a tidy penny and now I use it to go out and about and meet hot guys who want to screw me. Whoever said you can be too old for sex was an idiot; I’ll tell you this, if you start playing around with new men later in your life you’ll find that the sex is even more intense and satisfying.
So I’m not short of a penny or two. What do you think this allows me to do? Shopping! Yes! So I go shopping “a lot” and get up to what some people would consider strange activities when I’m doing it. You see, I usually arrange to meet one of my fuck buddies when I’m out and about, and sometimes even when I’m in a store.
My favourite place to do it when I’m out is in the fitting rooms of all my favourite shops. I’ve done it in Next, River Island and even Marks and Spencer a time or two! The know all the guys I meet very well now and all of them are just as into meeting and messing about in public as I am; it really is a tonic for all the cheating husband years I endured.
And none of this would be possible without using an online UK sex contacts network. The website I found made it very easy for me to get in contact with the guys that have now become very close friends (if you know what I mean). Everyone of them is really cool and very aware that I see other men all the time; no doubt they see other women all the time too, and quite frankly I’d rather it was this way, at least everyone is happy and having fun, everyone is open and honest, and no-one gets too possessive of anyone else. This is the way it should be and I intend to continue my internet sex contacts relationship for as long as my years are good to me; I think this could be a long time yet!
I’m a plumber and despite what everyone cares to think about plumbers getting to have their wicked way with horny housewives it’s not true. I wish it was true because I’d have had a lot more action, but it’s not and that’s all there is to it. However, I do get a lot of action from my UK sex contacts website. I’ve been a member for over a year now and I’ve been persuaded to write down what I think of the whole thing to give you all a little insight from an old hand at it.
The whole thing is very easy to use, and this is what attracted me to it in the first place. The site looked really good and I was going through a particularly rough patch, having just split up from my wife after 10 years of marriage (that’s a story of its own!) I wanted a distraction and I needed to have sex, it’s as simple as that. The site gave me everything it offered and more. You think initially that it’s all going to be contacting through the site and paying money out all the time, but it really isn’t, and once you’ve met a couple of good sex contacts that you trust you can exchange contact information directly anyway.
The first few encounters were a bit weird to tell the truth, and to be perfectly honest I felt as though I should have paid the girls I met for sex! I know that sounds awful but there you go. Knowing what I know now about sex dating however, they probably thought exactly the same thing. The thing you need to remember is that both of you are after the same thing; sex. It’s simple once you get going!
Now I see quite a few different women on regular occasions and I’m so happy in my life that I couldn’t begin to describe it to you. Women are wonderful, but they are placed firmly in their place with the sex dating. They don’t bother your work, your social life or indeed anything else, and you only need to meet them for sex when you want to. You obviously need to maintain a respectful relationship with them, but it’s not heavy like a real relationship. To be honest with you, I don’t think I ever want another relationship as long as I live; I’ve got everything I need in my life at the moment and I’ve got it all just where I want it!
For anyone even considering sex dating I would say go for it. What have you got to lose? There are more women out there than you can possibly imagine and they all want to have sex with guys who feel the same way about relationships as I do. One thing is for sure, you will not meet anyone who wants to tie you down (figuratively of course, you may actually want to be tied down physically!)
I’ve been single for over two years now. I find it hard to meet guys because I don’t have a very forgiving job and my friends are few and far between. Before I hooked up with UK sex dating I didn’t get any action at all in the bedroom (or anywhere else!), but now I can get my kicks and still maintain my lifestyle and job the way I want and need to. Personally I think that relationships are getting dated now anyway, and I’m not just saying that because I haven’t been in one for a while. When you consider how much stuff we all have to do these days it’s a wonder we find any time at all to spend with a “partner”. Why have one?
So the sex dating thing allows me this freedom and it allows me to have lots of fun when I want it. There are no risks involved at all the way I see it. If you’re going out on your own or with friends to meet people in a pub or club when there has clearly been alcohol involved, you’re asking for more trouble than you’re going to get from a guy you’ve checked out online, you’ve been chatting with for weeks, and who isn’t going to be drunk when he meets you! This is a huge bonus believe me. The amount of guys in the city at work who try to get me down the pub when we’ve finished and then subsequently try to get in my knickers is astonishing; they should be ashamed of themselves, not people who use sex dating!
Don’t get me wrong though, I’m not seeing a hundred different guys. I only see a few select guys that I’ve been seeing for a long time now. If one of them decides that he’s had enough or wants someone else then I’ll probably move onto someone new. This happens all the time in the sex dating community and the beauty of it is, is that no-one gets annoyed or upset by this event. We all know that there is another sex dater just around the corner waiting to meet you and that you’ve probably got a number of them on the go at the same time. All I will add to this is that if you do anything unprotected then you’re an idiot. I don’t know anyone who does this and I’ve met a lot of people in this community.
It really is the ultimate freedom and something that our parents wouldn’t have dreamed of being able to do! This is the way the world is evolving and it’s about time everyone realised that you don’t have to be in a long lasting, tolerant and monogamous relationship to live your life. You can get support from friends and family, and have your sex elsewhere; my belief is that you should keep them all very separate indeed!
When it comes to dating I’ve never had too much trouble to tell the truth. And no, I’m not particularly modest either! LOL! However, I do suffer with one problem when it comes to dating. Some guys take a hell of a long time to get me into bed and I want to have sex almost straight away. I understand how it works though, and it pisses me off. If I jump into bed with a guy on our first date I get labelled a slag; if he does it he gets a pat on the back however. You just can’t run with these social boundaries these days! So I decided to take a different angle on dating. Sex dating.
My experience of picking up guys in pubs and clubs hasn’t been the best by any means. I’ve usually been a little worse for wear and the guys have been even worse, and I’ve always regretted it in the morning. With sex dating it’s completely different because you know that the only reason you’re meeting the guy is to have sex with him. What you have to remember is to check out his profile real good online first. I’m not talking about what he does for a living or anything else like that, I’m talking about his body and the way he looks; it’s all about good sex!
That’s all I really wanted out of online sex dating, and so far that’s all I’ve had. Granted, I’ve had a few disappointments, but this happens anyway when you’re going out trying to get laid! I usually arrange to meet my dates in a pub or a coffee shop or something like that. This way it’s easier to run away if someone else turns up; not that this has happened to me, but you need to be safe. The great thing about meeting is that all that old style dating is gone. You don’t have to have someone wearing a particular colour flower or scarf or whatever! LOL! Now you’ve already seen them online and hopefully chatted to them too. You should have plenty to talk about before you get them in the bedroom.
I know, I’m awful aren’t I? The true predatory female. But this is what I want to do, and it’s what the guys seem to like too. There’s nothing like putting yourself on the same level as the guys in this day and age; why should they have all the fun anyway. Do yourself a favour and use them as though they were toys, because essentially they are!
UK Sex Contacts changed my life. When I say that I don’t mean it lightly either. I’m 26 years old and I love sex. The only trouble was that I wasn’t getting any. I’m not an ugly guy or anything, and it isn’t as if I don’t go out at all; I really do. It’s just that whenever I do go out, I always end up having more fun dancing the night away and hanging out with my friends (some of whom are women), and not spending enough time on the pull!
That’s the problem you see. Call me selfish if you like, but I can’t remember the last time I’ve ever had a decent one night stand. I’m mostly a little drunk and most of the girls I used to end up taking home were pretty much the same too. This is the main reason I joined the sex contacts site. I’d often thought about it before, but never really had the courage to try it out; there’s a lot of stigma attached to dating sites still.
Without going into too much detail about what actually happened on my sex dates (I’m sure you’re not interested in the details), I can still tell you that it worked perfectly and I’m still doing it. I’ve met four women through this site and they’re all into the same thing as me – namely no strings sex! There’s a lot to be said for meeting someone of a like mind to enjoy quality time with and this is the best thing to happen to me. The greatest thing for me was probably meeting someone for sex when we were both sober as judges! We didn’t meet to socialise or have dinner or anything like that; neither of us wants to waste time when all we want is to screw! It’s like having a fuck buddy I suppose.
I’ll go ahead and tell you about the last sex date I had anyway because it’s awesome. I met Sandra (not her real name, we sex daters like to keep a low profile!) at a coffee shop next to a cheap hotel. She was gorgeous in every sense of the word. She was the fourth sex date and they were getting better and better. When I joined up the sex dating website I initially thought that all the women would be a bit substandard or something; you know, desperate. This couldn’t be further from the truth. I’ve found that these women are ordinary women, and some of them are absolute babes! Sandra was one of them. We had some coffee and chatted a little about what we wanted from our date. I was so aroused just talking to her about what we were going to do next door in the hotel that I could hardly contain myself.
She told me that her looks could often put men off. She said they found her intimidating and unattainable. I could see what she meant. If I was to meet her in a club I’d never ask her out through fear of being rejected. As it happens, it turns out this is what happened to her all the time, so she uses the sex dating to get her action and much prefers it this way because it cuts all the “bullshit” (her own words).
So it turns out that you could take two things out of this story. You can either approach those girls in the club and take your chances, or you could join a sex dating site and get them all coming to you instead!