Being married for as long as my wife and I have isn’t always as easy as they show you on the soap operas. When two people grow together their opinions of each other change and their tastes change too with the passing of time. To keep a relationship strong you have to evolve; well at least that’s what my wife and I have discovered. It may not be the same for everyone, and of course there are different ways in which we evolve, but for us it was sexually. Something had to change for us sexually because we were both getting a little bored with the same old routine. We wanted excitement and adventure.
We tried roleplay and meeting in hotels etc but it just seemed laughable because there was no anxiety attached to it, and no real adventure. It was then that we turned to UK sex contacts and realised that there were thousands of people out there, both in and out of relationships, that we all dying to revitalise their sex life and have a little fun with their free time. People don’t just want to go home and do the regular stuff every night; they might think they do, but let me tell you once you’ve tried doing something else completely different you’ll never look back. This is how it was with the sex contacts.
The first meeting we arranged was in the next town to us because we didn’t want to get seen. It was exciting just getting ready and not telling people where we were going etc; it felt like something secret and special and we were already both feeling very horny. We could have probably gone to bed with each other there and then as we got ready just from the excitement, but we decided to go through with it. And what an excellent decision it was. We both had a wonderful time with two of the best people we’ve ever met in our entire lives. They’d been using sex contacts for a long time and told us some amazing stories about their sex lives. It was wonderful to speak so frankly about sex with a couple who we barely new, and it was an excellent run up to what we were planning to do later in the evening. This is the thing that everyone who uses sex contacts says about it, that the pressure is completely gone because all parties involved know that there is sex on the menu for later on; that’s why you’ve met. It’s amazing how liberating it is to sit with your wife across a table with another couple and know that you’re going to be having sex with them later on in the evening.
My name is Dave and I’ve been married for a couple of years now. My wife and I have a great sex life. It’s always varied and I don’t seem to need anything else at all from her. However, over the last couple of months I really wanted (not needed) to get something else involved in our sex life. I have a pretty high sex drive and need to be doing it virtually all the time when I’m home from work. I’m lucky that the wife does too; god knows what we’ll do when we decide to have kids!
Anyway, back to the story. I mentioned it to the wife that I would like to get involved with some other people when we have sex. At first she was really concerned and thought that I’d been having an affair or something, but when it came down to it she soon realised that she too wouldn’t mind experimenting a little; like she said “you only live once.” So we decided to use an online UK sex contacts website. We were amazed at the amount of people we saw on there, from all walks of life, all different ages etc. What surprised us the most was that there were quite a number of other couples on the site who also wanted to spice things up a little in the bedroom.
It didn’t take us long to introduce ourselves to three different couples. We were really lucky because my wife is really hot and anyone on that site would want to have sex with her; I did all the time! We had a few single guys coming onto my wife, but she wouldn’t entertain them at all, she wanted to do this with me and another couple, they were the rules of engagement according to her. UK sex contacts had an easy way of getting in touch with these three couples and before long we were chatting online and discussing fantasies and all kinds of other stuff.
We arranged to meet a couple who we both liked the look off. The woman was really hot; not as hot as my wife, but hot in a different way. She was older than my wife and looked as though she could teach me a thing or two about sex. We met them in a pub and shared a drink before going back to their place. Apparently they were old hands at this sex contacts business so they showed us the ropes and what was usual etiquette in meetings etc. It wasn’t rocket science or anything. The sex we had that night happened so easily and was so enjoyable that we’ve managed to stay in touch with the couple and still see them at least once a month for fun. We’re so familiar with them now that we can even call each other up and put in requests about underwear and outfits etc. It’s lots of fun and we would highly recommend it.
My husband and I have been experiencing difficult sexually for the last 15 months and we’ve been looking into various ways to revitalise things in the bedroom but have failed miserably. It’s not that we don’t love each other anymore, or even that we’re no longer attracted to each other; it’s just that something has been missing. We managed to fill that gap however with UK sex contacts. We’ve been dating other people now for around three months and things have never been better. They say that some couples need this sort of adventure in their sex lives and we’re both beginning to understand just how important it is now.
It all began with my husband fooling around on the computer one night and coming across a UK sex contacts website that looked pretty interesting. He said that perhaps we should look into doing something like this together. He said it in that kind of way that appeared to be jokey to begin with, but he was clearly gauging my reaction. I told him I’d be prepared to give anything a go and joked that we’re not having sex with each other so we may as well do it with someone else! We filled out the introduction etc together that evening before we went to bed.
By the morning we had a number of requests to contact and chat etc. We found another couple on there who seemed just like us. They too said that they were experiencing difficulties in their sex life and they had decided to join this site because a friend told them that they allow couples to interact on it too. I had always thought that these sort of sites were for single people only; or at least those looking for single sexual encounters. After chatting with this couple online for a few weeks we actually decided to go for it and meet them in a hotel not far away.
When we met them we found them to be exactly the same as us. They were both nervous and both clearly still thinking about whether or not they were doing the right thing. I think this is why we all got on so well together. Not only was it the first time for all concerned, but it was clear and present in everyone’s mind that we were going to have sex. It’s amazing how this kind of realisation presents you with the ability to drop all of your inhibitions at just the right time. That night we booked a room and invited this new couple of join us for drinks and some pretty adventurous sex. That night was the first time I’d engaged in anything sexual with my husband for a long time. We thoroughly enjoyed it, and now when we’re alone at home we’re constantly recalling our nights out with other couples; it really gets us going in the bedroom!
My husband is crippled and unable to have sex anymore. It took a long time to adjust to not having sex and although it sounds like I’m being selfish, I have spent many years like this, unable to get myself sexual satisfaction. However, my husband is a good man, and he asked me about it, and actually assumed that I had been having sex elsewhere anyway. When I told him I hadn’t he was mortified and decided that the best thing I could do would be to get myself some form of sexual entertainment. We were always very liberated sexually, but I never thought I’d hear him saying this. I guess this is what love is?
We looked into sex contacts on the internet and found it quite popular and easy to get involved in. I didn’t really want to do anything special, just maybe feel a man against my body again. I wanted him to be a good man, yet someone who understood my problem and didn’t encroach on my private life with my husband. Well, as it turns out, this is exactly what the sex contacts websites all had in common; they encouraged you to simply have sexual relationships. I found a guy and I’ve managed to maintain a healthy sex life with him without putting any strain at all on my marriage. My husband and I are still intimate in some ways, but never to the level I get from my sex contact.
You must understand however, as much as I enjoy having sex with my contact, I do not love him at all. I care about him and know a little about it, but not much. This is my choice and I like to keep this distance between us. Not only does it allow my marriage to remain unaffected by silly details, it also makes the sexual encounters that little bit more thrilling; the guy still feels like a stranger and I’ve found that I like that a lot. Who says you need to have sex with your husband all the time to make a marriage work? We are very happy together and I honestly think that even if it wasn’t for the accident, we may well have looked into this kind of sex contact service as a couple anyway; it isn’t as if we haven’t experimented before.
Some people I’ve chatted to via the online sex contacts websites have many partners out there and they like to swap around a little every now and then. I can see the fun element of this, but personally I think that if I was to do this it might be pushing the boundaries of my marriage. I went into the sex contacts world to find one man who I could see occasionally for no strings sex and that’s what I got; I really don’t think I’d be interested in a string of lovers, I don’t have the time or the energy!
People think that because my boyfriend and I are young that we don’t have any problems. Well, true enough, we don’t have that many, but we have come across a big one recently. He wanted to see other people. He said it was nothing to do with how our life was together, it’s just that he has a high sex drive and wants more of it. I too love having sex, but I find that I can’t keep up with his desires and I certainly don’t have the same amount of time as he does! I’m a student and he works part time in a bakery. He’s as faithful as an old dog though and I know he doesn’t cheat on me, so I managed to find a solution in UK sex contacts.
I know it sounds like an unlikely choice, but I have to say that since we’ve been with these guys we’ve had no problems at all, and in fact my own sex drive has risen quite dramatically. We are both very much in love and spend most of our free time together, but since we registered with UK sex contacts we’ve been meeting other people for sex! It’s great because we meet people of all ages and all walks of life. The other week we made out with a couple in their 50’s! This is the oldest guy I’ve ever had sex with. I’m only 20 years old, and I think the guy in his 50’s thought that Christmas had come early when he got hold of me. My boyfriend learned a few things of the woman in her 50’s too! When we got home, the next day we made out on our own and my boyfriend suddenly became a man during sex; it was incredible. It was as though the woman he’d been screwing had told him how to do it properly.
It’s not just older couples we meet. For my boyfriend’s birthday I agreed to meet a bi-sexual girl who wanted to meet couples. He has never forgotten this experience and says it’s the best of his life. He had one hell of a time watching me get it on with another girl (my first time) and then joining in himself; if it hadn’t been for all his extra training beforehand I don’t think he’d have coped with the action that presented itself to him!
So the sex dating thing is going really well now and I haven’t ever heard him ask to see other people. Why would we need to do that now that we can see these people just for sex and also together! Things couldn’t get much better at the moment, and it’s certainly a learning curve for us both sexually; we should be pretty damn good at it soon!