UK Sex contacts: A Way of Life

It’s not all about meeting new people when you begin sex contacts.  When I joined up and started looking for sex contacts I slept with a lot of people, but now I only meet up with two.  This is enough for me and I don’t need any more than that.  Many people want to have as many as possible, but to me this defies the objective of the website.  You can be on there all the time if you like, seeing as many people as you can, but if you do this you might end up with a lot of first night unrewarding experiences.

I find that once I’ve found someone, I try to hang onto him as long as possible simply because I know that once he gets to know my body and what I like, the sex will be fantastic; I’ve never been wrong yet.  Those first time nervous sessions are rarely revelatory to me these days so I’d much rather just do them and get them out of the way.  This is why I often go for a nice person who I can get to know as well as screw.

Now, this does tend to freak out a few men I’ve met in the past and that’s why it’s taken me so long to find these two dependable guys I have.  I have them pretty much on tap when I want them and I love this feeling.  Don’t get me wrong, I know they came from a sex contacts website and you simply have to accept the fact that these guys will never be faithful to you or anyone else; but then that’s not what you want is it?  Otherwise you’d be on a regular dating site wouldn’t you?

The important part for me is getting the sex right.  I’ve had other lovers through the sex contacts that just haven’t been able to do it how I like it, and to be honest, I’ve been brutally honest with them.  I don’t believe in just not calling someone again and not telling them why; and in one particular case I had a guy come back to me for a one off to prove to me that he’d improved his technique.  He certainly had, let me tell you.  Sadly there wasn’t a space for him in my life at the time.

I like to keep them fresh however, so I do change them around a little now and again; but I will never be having sex with more than two guys at the same time, it’s just too much trouble trying to keep up.  They get dumped for a number of reasons, but mostly it’s because they become a little demanding and want to see me more often than I do them.  This is irritating and not what sex contacts should be like.  It’s a way of life for me and a big part of my social activity.

Sarah ended her two year sex drought by hooking up with casual guys for regular sex

 

I’ve been single for over two years now.  I find it hard to meet guys because I don’t have a very forgiving job and my friends are few and far between.  Before I hooked up with UK sex dating I didn’t get any action at all in the bedroom (or anywhere else!), but now I can get my kicks and still maintain my lifestyle and job the way I want and need to.  Personally I think that relationships are getting dated now anyway, and I’m not just saying that because I haven’t been in one for a while.  When you consider how much stuff we all have to do these days it’s a wonder we find any time at all to spend with a “partner”.  Why have one?

So the sex dating thing allows me this freedom and it allows me to have lots of fun when I want it.  There are no risks involved at all the way I see it.  If you’re going out on your own or with friends to meet people in a pub or club when there has clearly been alcohol involved, you’re asking for more trouble than you’re going to get from a guy you’ve checked out online, you’ve been chatting with for weeks, and who isn’t going to be drunk when he meets you!  This is a huge bonus believe me.  The amount of guys in the city at work who try to get me down the pub when we’ve finished and then subsequently try to get in my knickers is astonishing; they should be ashamed of themselves, not people who use sex dating!

Don’t get me wrong though, I’m not seeing a hundred different guys.  I only see a few select guys that I’ve been seeing for a long time now.  If one of them decides that he’s had enough or wants someone else then I’ll probably move onto someone new.  This happens all the time in the sex dating community and the beauty of it is, is that no-one gets annoyed or upset by this event.  We all know that there is another sex dater just around the corner waiting to meet you and that you’ve probably got a number of them on the go at the same time.  All I will add to this is that if you do anything unprotected then you’re an idiot.  I don’t know anyone who does this and I’ve met a lot of people in this community.

It really is the ultimate freedom and something that our parents wouldn’t have dreamed of being able to do!  This is the way the world is evolving and it’s about time everyone realised that you don’t have to be in a long lasting, tolerant and monogamous relationship to live your life.  You can get support from friends and family, and have your sex elsewhere; my belief is that you should keep them all very separate indeed!