My name is Jessica and I’m a serial sex dater. There, I’ve said it, and it almost feels like I’ve come along to sex daters anonymous to cure myself of an addiction; however, this is certainly not something I would even consider curing because it’s changed my life! Some people say that women shouldn’t engage in this sort of activity, but the way I see it is that these people are probably those who don’t have the courage to go through with it. As a single woman of independent means, I am totally confident in my decision to go into UK sex dating, and I do it with my eyes wide open. I know just what I’m doing and I am not (as some people like to think) being taken advantage of.
You see, this is the problem. When a man goes sex dating it’s considered either typical or acceptable, but when a woman does it some people think that you’re going to get attacked or something worse. There is no difference between the male or female when it comes to wanting to have sex with a stranger. If you want to get laid you go out and you try to chat someone up don’t you? Well, I’m no good at that, but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to have fun with guys who feel the same as me!
I must confess that I did feel a little nervous when I registered etc. I thought I would be bombarded by a load of horny deadbeats, but it simply wasn’t like that at all. The guys who contacted me seemed just as unsure as I was in the beginning. They were all perfectly honest, polite and enjoyed chatting with me as much as I them. Now, we all know why we were chatting, we’re not fools; it’s just a way of breaking ice. Eventually I got down to the nitty gritty with one guy online and we arranged to meet. I’d seen his pictures and he was so hot it was unbelievable; probably the hottest guy I’ve ever hooked up with.
We met in a pub near a hotel that we’d both agreed on staying in for the night (or however long we wanted!) His name was Graham and he was a really nice guy. If it hadn’t been for the fact that I seriously didn’t want a relationship and neither did he, I might have actually considered dating him on a regular basis. However, what you need to understand about sex dating is that no-one really wants to do this!
The evening didn’t last long in the pub. We skipped over to the hotel and did the deed several times and it was amazing. I won’t go into all the details with you here, I could write an erotic novel about the encounter! I have since seen Graham on three more occasions and each of them has been as good as the first time; in fact I’d even go so far as to say they have been better because we’re more familiar with each other now and know what the other wants out of sex!
My name is Tom and I’m a little agoraphobic. This is a condition that prevents you going out. It’s quite a serious condition and I’m grateful that I don’t have it as bad as many people, but none the less it can be quite debilitating. When I do go out and about I’m usually with a friend or two who can support me if necessary. So you can imagine what my love life is like! Not very active to say the least.
This was getting me down enormously about three months back. I basically had only one option if I wanted to have sex, and this was to book escorts to come to my home and screw me. This is not what I wanted at all, and despite that, I couldn’t afford that sort of luxury! So I joined a sex dating website that introduced me to a load of women who just wanted to meet and have sex with no strings at all! This was perfect for me!
I met a girl called Isabelle on the site and we chatted a little for a few days online. The chat turned naughty, as you can imagine it would with two people who just wanted to meet and have sex, and before long she agreed to come to my home. This surprised me at first, but then I had been totally honest with her about my condition and she seemed fine with it.
When she arrived she was everything her pictures said she was and more. She was confident and relaxed and it was her that made the first moves on me. I was a little unnerved at first, but we got on like a house on fire and when we finally made it to the bedroom it was fantastic. What I found best of all was the way she didn’t really tell me anything about herself that could connect her with anyone, anywhere. I loved this type of girl! She wasn’t interested in anything but the sex. Since that first meeting we’ve been regular fuck buddies and things are going really well. In this online sex dating business the trick is to meet a few people who you can get along with and who don’t want anything extra from you. We all like to get on with our lives free from constraints and having a relationship for me, is not only quite impossible, but I actually don’t want one either; I have enough to do!
People think that because my boyfriend and I are young that we don’t have any problems. Well, true enough, we don’t have that many, but we have come across a big one recently. He wanted to see other people. He said it was nothing to do with how our life was together, it’s just that he has a high sex drive and wants more of it. I too love having sex, but I find that I can’t keep up with his desires and I certainly don’t have the same amount of time as he does! I’m a student and he works part time in a bakery. He’s as faithful as an old dog though and I know he doesn’t cheat on me, so I managed to find a solution in UK sex contacts.
I know it sounds like an unlikely choice, but I have to say that since we’ve been with these guys we’ve had no problems at all, and in fact my own sex drive has risen quite dramatically. We are both very much in love and spend most of our free time together, but since we registered with UK sex contacts we’ve been meeting other people for sex! It’s great because we meet people of all ages and all walks of life. The other week we made out with a couple in their 50’s! This is the oldest guy I’ve ever had sex with. I’m only 20 years old, and I think the guy in his 50’s thought that Christmas had come early when he got hold of me. My boyfriend learned a few things of the woman in her 50’s too! When we got home, the next day we made out on our own and my boyfriend suddenly became a man during sex; it was incredible. It was as though the woman he’d been screwing had told him how to do it properly.
It’s not just older couples we meet. For my boyfriend’s birthday I agreed to meet a bi-sexual girl who wanted to meet couples. He has never forgotten this experience and says it’s the best of his life. He had one hell of a time watching me get it on with another girl (my first time) and then joining in himself; if it hadn’t been for all his extra training beforehand I don’t think he’d have coped with the action that presented itself to him!
So the sex dating thing is going really well now and I haven’t ever heard him ask to see other people. Why would we need to do that now that we can see these people just for sex and also together! Things couldn’t get much better at the moment, and it’s certainly a learning curve for us both sexually; we should be pretty damn good at it soon!
UK Sex Contacts changed my life. When I say that I don’t mean it lightly either. I’m 26 years old and I love sex. The only trouble was that I wasn’t getting any. I’m not an ugly guy or anything, and it isn’t as if I don’t go out at all; I really do. It’s just that whenever I do go out, I always end up having more fun dancing the night away and hanging out with my friends (some of whom are women), and not spending enough time on the pull!
That’s the problem you see. Call me selfish if you like, but I can’t remember the last time I’ve ever had a decent one night stand. I’m mostly a little drunk and most of the girls I used to end up taking home were pretty much the same too. This is the main reason I joined the sex contacts site. I’d often thought about it before, but never really had the courage to try it out; there’s a lot of stigma attached to dating sites still.
Without going into too much detail about what actually happened on my sex dates (I’m sure you’re not interested in the details), I can still tell you that it worked perfectly and I’m still doing it. I’ve met four women through this site and they’re all into the same thing as me – namely no strings sex! There’s a lot to be said for meeting someone of a like mind to enjoy quality time with and this is the best thing to happen to me. The greatest thing for me was probably meeting someone for sex when we were both sober as judges! We didn’t meet to socialise or have dinner or anything like that; neither of us wants to waste time when all we want is to screw! It’s like having a fuck buddy I suppose.
I’ll go ahead and tell you about the last sex date I had anyway because it’s awesome. I met Sandra (not her real name, we sex daters like to keep a low profile!) at a coffee shop next to a cheap hotel. She was gorgeous in every sense of the word. She was the fourth sex date and they were getting better and better. When I joined up the sex dating website I initially thought that all the women would be a bit substandard or something; you know, desperate. This couldn’t be further from the truth. I’ve found that these women are ordinary women, and some of them are absolute babes! Sandra was one of them. We had some coffee and chatted a little about what we wanted from our date. I was so aroused just talking to her about what we were going to do next door in the hotel that I could hardly contain myself.
She told me that her looks could often put men off. She said they found her intimidating and unattainable. I could see what she meant. If I was to meet her in a club I’d never ask her out through fear of being rejected. As it happens, it turns out this is what happened to her all the time, so she uses the sex dating to get her action and much prefers it this way because it cuts all the “bullshit” (her own words).
So it turns out that you could take two things out of this story. You can either approach those girls in the club and take your chances, or you could join a sex dating site and get them all coming to you instead!