Young couple from Dudley, West Midlands with with a high sex drive

People think that because my boyfriend and I are young that we don’t have any problems.  Well, true enough, we don’t have that many, but we have come across a big one recently.  He wanted to see other people.  He said it was nothing to do with how our life was together, it’s just that he has a high sex drive and wants more of it.  I too love having sex, but I find that I can’t keep up with his desires and I certainly don’t have the same amount of time as he does!  I’m a student and he works part time in a bakery.  He’s as faithful as an old dog though and I know he doesn’t cheat on me, so I managed to find a solution in UK sex contacts.

I know it sounds like an unlikely choice, but I have to say that since we’ve been with these guys we’ve had no problems at all, and in fact my own sex drive has risen quite dramatically.  We are both very much in love and spend most of our free time together, but since we registered with UK sex contacts we’ve been meeting other people for sex!  It’s great because we meet people of all ages and all walks of life.  The other week we made out with a couple in their 50’s!  This is the oldest guy I’ve ever had sex with.  I’m only 20 years old, and I think the guy in his 50’s thought that Christmas had come early when he got hold of me.  My boyfriend learned a few things of the woman in her 50’s too!  When we got home, the next day we made out on our own and my boyfriend suddenly became a man during sex; it was incredible.  It was as though the woman he’d been screwing had told him how to do it properly.

It’s not just older couples we meet.  For my boyfriend’s birthday I agreed to meet a bi-sexual girl who wanted to meet couples.  He has never forgotten this experience and says it’s the best of his life.  He had one hell of a time watching me get it on with another girl (my first time) and then joining in himself; if it hadn’t been for all his extra training beforehand I don’t think he’d have coped with the action that presented itself to him!

So the sex dating thing is going really well now and I haven’t ever heard him ask to see other people.  Why would we need to do that now that we can see these people just for sex and also together!  Things couldn’t get much better at the moment, and it’s certainly a learning curve for us both sexually; we should be pretty damn good at it soon!

26 year old male from Manchester not getting any sex

UK Sex Contacts changed my life.  When I say that I don’t mean it lightly either.  I’m 26 years old and I love sex.  The only trouble was that I wasn’t getting any.  I’m not an ugly guy or anything, and it isn’t as if I don’t go out at all; I really do.  It’s just that whenever I do go out, I always end up having more fun dancing the night away and hanging out with my friends (some of whom are women), and not spending enough time on the pull!

That’s the problem you see.  Call me selfish if you like, but I can’t remember the last time I’ve ever had a decent one night stand.  I’m mostly a little drunk and most of the girls I used to end up taking home were pretty much the same too.  This is the main reason I joined the sex contacts site.  I’d often thought about it before, but never really had the courage to try it out; there’s a lot of stigma attached to dating sites still.

Without going into too much detail about what actually happened on my sex dates (I’m sure you’re not interested in the details), I can still tell you that it worked perfectly and I’m still doing it.  I’ve met four women through this site and they’re all into the same thing as me – namely no strings sex!  There’s a lot to be said for meeting someone of a like mind to enjoy quality time with and this is the best thing to happen to me.  The greatest thing for me was probably meeting someone for sex when we were both sober as judges!  We didn’t meet to socialise or have dinner or anything like that; neither of us wants to waste time when all we want is to screw!  It’s like having a fuck buddy I suppose.

I’ll go ahead and tell you about the last sex date I had anyway because it’s awesome.  I met Sandra (not her real name, we sex daters like to keep a low profile!) at a coffee shop next to a cheap hotel.  She was gorgeous in every sense of the word.  She was the fourth sex date and they were getting better and better.  When I joined up the sex dating website I initially thought that all the women would be a bit substandard or something; you know, desperate.  This couldn’t be further from the truth.  I’ve found that these women are ordinary women, and some of them are absolute babes!  Sandra was one of them.  We had some coffee and chatted a little about what we wanted from our date.  I was so aroused just talking to her about what we were going to do next door in the hotel that I could hardly contain myself.

She told me that her looks could often put men off.  She said they found her intimidating and unattainable.  I could see what she meant.  If I was to meet her in a club I’d never ask her out through fear of being rejected.  As it happens, it turns out this is what happened to her all the time, so she uses the sex dating to get her action and much prefers it this way because it cuts all the “bullshit” (her own words).

So it turns out that you could take two things out of this story.  You can either approach those girls in the club and take your chances, or you could join a sex dating site and get them all coming to you instead!