Dave and his wife enjoyed threesomes and swinger sex with three different couples

My name is Dave and I’ve been married for a couple of years now.  My wife and I have a great sex life.  It’s always varied and I don’t seem to need anything else at all from her.  However, over the last couple of months I really wanted (not needed) to get something else involved in our sex life.  I have a pretty high sex drive and need to be doing it virtually all the time when I’m home from work.  I’m lucky that the wife does too; god knows what we’ll do when we decide to have kids!

Anyway, back to the story.  I mentioned it to the wife that I would like to get involved with some other people when we have sex.  At first she was really concerned and thought that I’d been having an affair or something, but when it came down to it she soon realised that she too wouldn’t mind experimenting a little; like she said “you only live once.”  So we decided to use an online UK sex contacts website.  We were amazed at the amount of people we saw on there, from all walks of life, all different ages etc.  What surprised us the most was that there were quite a number of other couples on the site who also wanted to spice things up a little in the bedroom.

It didn’t take us long to introduce ourselves to three different couples.  We were really lucky because my wife is really hot and anyone on that site would want to have sex with her; I did all the time!  We had a few single guys coming onto my wife, but she wouldn’t entertain them at all, she wanted to do this with me and another couple, they were the rules of engagement according to her.  UK sex contacts had an easy way of getting in touch with these three couples and before long we were chatting online and discussing fantasies and all kinds of other stuff.

We arranged to meet a couple who we both liked the look off.  The woman was really hot; not as hot as my wife, but hot in a different way.  She was older than my wife and looked as though she could teach me a thing or two about sex.  We met them in a pub and shared a drink before going back to their place.  Apparently they were old hands at this sex contacts business so they showed us the ropes and what was usual etiquette in meetings etc.  It wasn’t rocket science or anything.  The sex we had that night happened so easily and was so enjoyable that we’ve managed to stay in touch with the couple and still see them at least once a month for fun.  We’re so familiar with them now that we can even call each other up and put in requests about underwear and outfits etc.  It’s lots of fun and we would highly recommend it.

Mature housewife Theresa looking for kinky one night stands with younger men

My name is Theresa and I married very early in life; some would argue a little too early.  I went to a catholic school and new nothing of sex really until I left.  Then I met a man in the forces and we settled down and had some kids etc etc.  Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to make out that this was a bad time in my life.  This was one of the best times I’ve ever had.  Being married to my husband, no passed away, and having my wonderful children was amazing and I still enjoy my children and grandchildren today.

That’s right, I’m in my sixties now, but it doesn’t stop me living my life.  A friend of mine told me to get involved with meeting people when my husband passed on, and this is what I’ve been doing for the last four years of my life.  Being retired gives me lots of time to go out and meet people, but I have a very high sex drive and can’t get sex contacts from the Rambler’s Association!  However, I can get great friendship and companions that I enjoy spending quality time with.

The other quality time I get is sex.  I get my sex from a number of different men, some younger, and some around the same age as myself.  We meet informally and in various places through a UK sex contacts website.  This was introduced to me by a very good friend of mine who also uses the service.  If there is anything I can recommend to anyone, of all ages, then it’s this!  Sex contacts are the new thing and even a woman of my age can appreciate what they have to offer.

I’m no spring chicken, but I consider myself to still have a pretty good body and I know that I have an insatiable appetite for sex.  The best thing about meeting my sex contacts is that it gives me something a little naughty to look forward to each week and an excuse to get dressed up and have some fun.  Sometimes we go out and have something to eat even or a few drinks; it’s not always meeting and having sex, although these times are also very welcome indeed.  It’s good to mix things up at my age, it keeps me youthful and on my toes.

Another amazing thing about having sex contacts is that they never hassle you about meeting up.  This is because they often have a number of people they see.  This keeps us all out of each other’s hair and able to get on with the rest of our lives.  Sometimes I don’t feel like getting in touch with one of my sex contacts at all for a while, but I know that when I do feel like it I can just pick up where I left off, like having a really good friend who puts no pressure on you at all.

Curious married couple looking to spice up their sex lives with other contacts

My husband and I have been experiencing difficult sexually for the last 15 months and we’ve been looking into various ways to revitalise things in the bedroom but have failed miserably.  It’s not that we don’t love each other anymore, or even that we’re no longer attracted to each other; it’s just that something has been missing.  We managed to fill that gap however with UK sex contacts.  We’ve been dating other people now for around three months and things have never been better.  They say that some couples need this sort of adventure in their sex lives and we’re both beginning to understand just how important it is now.

It all began with my husband fooling around on the computer one night and coming across a UK sex contacts website that looked pretty interesting.  He said that perhaps we should look into doing something like this together.  He said it in that kind of way that appeared to be jokey to begin with, but he was clearly gauging my reaction.  I told him I’d be prepared to give anything a go and joked that we’re not having sex with each other so we may as well do it with someone else!  We filled out the introduction etc together that evening before we went to bed.

By the morning we had a number of requests to contact and chat etc.  We found another couple on there who seemed just like us.  They too said that they were experiencing difficulties in their sex life and they had decided to join this site because a friend told them that they allow couples to interact on it too.  I had always thought that these sort of sites were for single people only; or at least those looking for single sexual encounters.  After chatting with this couple online for a few weeks we actually decided to go for it and meet them in a hotel not far away.

When we met them we found them to be exactly the same as us.  They were both nervous and both clearly still thinking about whether or not they were doing the right thing.  I think this is why we all got on so well together.  Not only was it the first time for all concerned, but it was clear and present in everyone’s mind that we were going to have sex.  It’s amazing how this kind of realisation presents you with the ability to drop all of your inhibitions at just the right time.  That night we booked a room and invited this new couple of join us for drinks and some pretty adventurous sex.  That night was the first time I’d engaged in anything sexual with my husband for a long time.  We thoroughly enjoyed it, and now when we’re alone at home we’re constantly recalling our nights out with other couples; it really gets us going in the bedroom!

Married Andrea seeks regular sex sessions with other couples and singles

My husband is crippled and unable to have sex anymore.  It took a long time to adjust to not having sex and although it sounds like I’m being selfish, I have spent many years like this, unable to get myself sexual satisfaction.  However, my husband is a good man, and he asked me about it, and actually assumed that I had been having sex elsewhere anyway.  When I told him I hadn’t he was mortified and decided that the best thing I could do would be to get myself some form of sexual entertainment.  We were always very liberated sexually, but I never thought I’d hear him saying this.  I guess this is what love is?

We looked into sex contacts on the internet and found it quite popular and easy to get involved in.  I didn’t really want to do anything special, just maybe feel a man against my body again.  I wanted him to be a good man, yet someone who understood my problem and didn’t encroach on my private life with my husband.  Well, as it turns out, this is exactly what the sex contacts websites all had in common; they encouraged you to simply have sexual relationships.  I found a guy and I’ve managed to maintain a healthy sex life with him without putting any strain at all on my marriage.  My husband and I are still intimate in some ways, but never to the level I get from my sex contact.

You must understand however, as much as I enjoy having sex with my contact, I do not love him at all.  I care about him and know a little about it, but not much.  This is my choice and I like to keep this distance between us.  Not only does it allow my marriage to remain unaffected by silly details, it also makes the sexual encounters that little bit more thrilling; the guy still feels like a stranger and I’ve found that I like that a lot.  Who says you need to have sex with your husband all the time to make a marriage work?  We are very happy together and I honestly think that even if it wasn’t for the accident, we may well have looked into this kind of sex contact service as a couple anyway; it isn’t as if we haven’t experimented before.

Some people I’ve chatted to via the online sex contacts websites have many partners out there and they like to swap around a little every now and then.  I can see the fun element of this, but personally I think that if I was to do this it might be pushing the boundaries of my marriage.  I went into the sex contacts world to find one man who I could see occasionally for no strings sex and that’s what I got; I really don’t think I’d be interested in a string of lovers, I don’t have the time or the energy!

Sarah ended her two year sex drought by hooking up with casual guys for regular sex

 

I’ve been single for over two years now.  I find it hard to meet guys because I don’t have a very forgiving job and my friends are few and far between.  Before I hooked up with UK sex dating I didn’t get any action at all in the bedroom (or anywhere else!), but now I can get my kicks and still maintain my lifestyle and job the way I want and need to.  Personally I think that relationships are getting dated now anyway, and I’m not just saying that because I haven’t been in one for a while.  When you consider how much stuff we all have to do these days it’s a wonder we find any time at all to spend with a “partner”.  Why have one?

So the sex dating thing allows me this freedom and it allows me to have lots of fun when I want it.  There are no risks involved at all the way I see it.  If you’re going out on your own or with friends to meet people in a pub or club when there has clearly been alcohol involved, you’re asking for more trouble than you’re going to get from a guy you’ve checked out online, you’ve been chatting with for weeks, and who isn’t going to be drunk when he meets you!  This is a huge bonus believe me.  The amount of guys in the city at work who try to get me down the pub when we’ve finished and then subsequently try to get in my knickers is astonishing; they should be ashamed of themselves, not people who use sex dating!

Don’t get me wrong though, I’m not seeing a hundred different guys.  I only see a few select guys that I’ve been seeing for a long time now.  If one of them decides that he’s had enough or wants someone else then I’ll probably move onto someone new.  This happens all the time in the sex dating community and the beauty of it is, is that no-one gets annoyed or upset by this event.  We all know that there is another sex dater just around the corner waiting to meet you and that you’ve probably got a number of them on the go at the same time.  All I will add to this is that if you do anything unprotected then you’re an idiot.  I don’t know anyone who does this and I’ve met a lot of people in this community.

It really is the ultimate freedom and something that our parents wouldn’t have dreamed of being able to do!  This is the way the world is evolving and it’s about time everyone realised that you don’t have to be in a long lasting, tolerant and monogamous relationship to live your life.  You can get support from friends and family, and have your sex elsewhere; my belief is that you should keep them all very separate indeed!

Sex loving Jayne can not get enough of her casual encounters

When it comes to dating I’ve never had too much trouble to tell the truth.  And no, I’m not particularly modest either!  LOL!  However, I do suffer with one problem when it comes to dating.  Some guys take a hell of a long time to get me into bed and I want to have sex almost straight away.  I understand how it works though, and it pisses me off.  If I jump into bed with a guy on our first date I get labelled a slag; if he does it he gets a pat on the back however.  You just can’t run with these social boundaries these days!  So I decided to take a different angle on dating.  Sex dating.

My experience of picking up guys in pubs and clubs hasn’t been the best by any means.  I’ve usually been a little worse for wear and the guys have been even worse, and I’ve always regretted it in the morning.  With sex dating it’s completely different because you know that the only reason you’re meeting the guy is to have sex with him.  What you have to remember is to check out his profile real good online first.  I’m not talking about what he does for a living or anything else like that, I’m talking about his body and the way he looks; it’s all about good sex!

That’s all I really wanted out of online sex dating, and so far that’s all I’ve had.  Granted, I’ve had a few disappointments, but this happens anyway when you’re going out trying to get laid!  I usually arrange to meet my dates in a pub or a coffee shop or something like that.  This way it’s easier to run away if someone else turns up; not that this has happened to me, but you need to be safe.  The great thing about meeting is that all that old style dating is gone.  You don’t have to have someone wearing a particular colour flower or scarf or whatever! LOL!  Now you’ve already seen them online and hopefully chatted to them too.  You should have plenty to talk about before you get them in the bedroom.

I know, I’m awful aren’t I?  The true predatory female.  But this is what I want to do, and it’s what the guys seem to like too.  There’s nothing like putting yourself on the same level as the guys in this day and age; why should they have all the fun anyway.  Do yourself a favour and use them as though they were toys, because essentially they are!

Paul tells all about his 3 experiences with female members from UK sex contacts

This is one hell of a tale!  I’ve never been so excited to tell anyone this story before.  I’ve been a member of a UK sex dating website for a few weeks now and I’ve been laid three times.  This is good for me.  It would usually take me around two years to get this much action on my own, generally because I’m a lazy git who never gets his arse off the sofa to go out and meet people.  As it happens I didn’t need to get my arse off the sofa because I could get all the action I needed by sitting completely still and comfortable on my sofa with the lap top.

The site put me in touch with these girls who all wanted to get laid.  Yes, you read it correctly, they all wanted to get laid above anything else!  They weren’t the slightest bit interested in me, what I did, what my aspirations in life were, or any of that claptrap; all they wanted was a good shag!  These girls have the brains of guys I reckon!  What more could you want?  I bet half the married men in the UK wish their wives were like this and didn’t bother them with the colour of the carpets etc!

To be brutally honest with you, I can’t even remember the name of the first girl I got laid with!  I know, it sounds bad doesn’t it?  However, I know that she’d be happy with that knowledge and she knows that if she wants a return visit she can contact me through the website anytime she likes.  Great isn’t it?  The last one I had was called Sarah and this was only a couple of nights ago.  I definitely be seeing her again.

Sarah was into some real kinky shit and I loved every minute of it.  The great thing about the sex dating website is that you can chat to the girl online for a while if you like before getting together; so I had a good idea what she was expecting and what she wanted to do on our sex date!  She was one of these bondage specialists or something; she’d been doing it for years with as many guys as she could find that would let her smack them around a little.  I didn’t mind as long as I got my way in the end; she agreed and a good night was had by us both (although I have to admit that I am a little sore around the rear end!)

As far as recommending it is concerned, I almost don’t want to because they’ll be more girls for me.  But when you see just how many girls are on these sites these days you’ll realise that they’re coming out of the kitchen guys because they all just want a good seeing to with no strings attached.

Shy Andrew on his experience with a sexy casual fling in a hotel

It’s not easy being a man!  All the women I’ve ever met think that it’s not easy being a woman and that men have it perfectly easy all the time, but they’re so wrong.  I don’t know if I have a confidence issue or what, but it just seems to me that all the other guys out there are better at relationships than me.  I’ve never been able to hold one down for long, and it’s not because I’m unloveable or anything like that, it’s just that I like my own space a little too much.

I also lack a lot of charm when it comes to chatting up women; I’ve never been any good at it to be perfectly honest with you.  Ever since I was in school I could never just walk up to a member of the opposite sex and begin talking like you see guys doing all the time these days in the pubs and clubs.  I just didn’t have it in me, and still don’t.  However, I do have needs and I need to get them seen to.  This is why I’ve recently joined a UK sex dating website.  Sex is an important part of my life that has suffered immensely due to my terrible trouble talking to women, but I’ve decided that I’m still going to get what I want, and what every man deserves to have.

So the other day I had my first sex contact and that’s what’s inspired me to write this down.  She was amazing.  I didn’t think that I could do it to be perfectly honest, but once I’d registered I found that the process was so easy I just did it.  The girls on the site were all pretty good (there were a few rough ones yes).  I met Francesca last Friday night at the pub and we hit it off straight away.  The beauty of this meeting was that it wasn’t her first sex contact meeting and she was very relaxed.  She asked me if I had a problem with the fact that she’d seen other men through this and I said no as long as she’d practiced safe sex.  When she said that she never did anything unprotected I was put at ease immediately and excused myself to go to the toilet to get some condoms.  It was liberating to say the least going to get condoms when I’d only just met a girl and had one drink.  Knowing that you’re going to have sex is one hell of an ice-breaker let me tell you.

We ended up going to a nearby hotel.  We split the bill down the middle which was nice, despite me offering to pay it all.  What was wonderful about all this was that Francesca was probably the type of girl I’d go for anyway, if I ever had the balls to ask her out in the pub; but now I didn’t have to.  We got it on almost immediately and had such a session I could hardly walk the next day.  We’ll be seeing each other again pretty soon (hopefully!) and she said she liked me a lot.

Leeds slut Jessica is now a serial sex dater

My name is Jessica and I’m a serial sex dater.  There, I’ve said it, and it almost feels like I’ve come along to sex daters anonymous to cure myself of an addiction; however, this is certainly not something I would even consider curing because it’s changed my life!  Some people say that women shouldn’t engage in this sort of activity, but the way I see it is that these people are probably those who don’t have the courage to go through with it.  As a single woman of independent means, I am totally confident in my decision to go into UK sex dating, and I do it with my eyes wide open.  I know just what I’m doing and I am not (as some people like to think) being taken advantage of.

You see, this is the problem.  When a man goes sex dating it’s considered either typical or acceptable, but when a woman does it some people think that you’re going to get attacked or something worse.  There is no difference between the male or female when it comes to wanting to have sex with a stranger.  If you want to get laid you go out and you try to chat someone up don’t you?  Well, I’m no good at that, but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to have fun with guys who feel the same as me!

I must confess that I did feel a little nervous when I registered etc.  I thought I would be bombarded by a load of horny deadbeats, but it simply wasn’t like that at all.  The guys who contacted me seemed just as unsure as I was in the beginning.  They were all perfectly honest, polite and enjoyed chatting with me as much as I them.  Now, we all know why we were chatting, we’re not fools; it’s just a way of breaking ice.  Eventually I got down to the nitty gritty with one guy online and we arranged to meet.  I’d seen his pictures and he was so hot it was unbelievable; probably the hottest guy I’ve ever hooked up with.

We met in a pub near a hotel that we’d both agreed on staying in for the night (or however long we wanted!)  His name was Graham and he was a really nice guy.  If it hadn’t been for the fact that I seriously didn’t want a relationship and neither did he, I might have actually considered dating him on a regular basis.  However, what you need to understand about sex dating is that no-one really wants to do this!

The evening didn’t last long in the pub.  We skipped over to the hotel and did the deed several times and it was amazing.  I won’t go into all the details with you here, I could write an erotic novel about the encounter!  I have since seen Graham on three more occasions and each of them has been as good as the first time; in fact I’d even go so far as to say they have been better because we’re more familiar with each other now and know what the other wants out of sex!

Tom & Isabella from Bristol are now regular fuck buddies

My name is Tom and I’m a little agoraphobic.  This is a condition that prevents you going out.  It’s quite a serious condition and I’m grateful that I don’t have it as bad as many people, but none the less it can be quite debilitating.  When I do go out and about I’m usually with a friend or two who can support me if necessary.  So you can imagine what my love life is like!  Not very active to say the least.

This was getting me down enormously about three months back.  I basically had only one option if I wanted to have sex, and this was to book escorts to come to my home and screw me.  This is not what I wanted at all, and despite that, I couldn’t afford that sort of luxury!  So I joined a sex dating website that introduced me to a load of women who just wanted to meet and have sex with no strings at all!  This was perfect for me!

I met a girl called Isabelle on the site and we chatted a little for a few days online.  The chat turned naughty, as you can imagine it would with two people who just wanted to meet and have sex, and before long she agreed to come to my home.  This surprised me at first, but then I had been totally honest with her about my condition and she seemed fine with it.

When she arrived she was everything her pictures said she was and more.  She was confident and relaxed and it was her that made the first moves on me.  I was a little unnerved at first, but we got on like a house on fire and when we finally made it to the bedroom it was fantastic.  What I found best of all was the way she didn’t really tell me anything about herself that could connect her with anyone, anywhere.  I loved this type of girl!  She wasn’t interested in anything but the sex.  Since that first meeting we’ve been regular fuck buddies and things are going really well.  In this online sex dating business the trick is to meet a few people who you can get along with and who don’t want anything extra from you.  We all like to get on with our lives free from constraints and having a relationship for me, is not only quite impossible, but I actually don’t want one either; I have enough to do!