Swingers: Need to Know

I have been invited to be in a swingers club with a party taking place at the Vanilla Alternative in St Neots, Cambridgeshire, but to this date, it hasn’t happened and never will. That’s just not my scene. Having said that, what you do with your sex life, that’s totally your call to make and you shouldn’t be judged if that’s your scene. But let’s talk about a few things. Keep in mind, I am not a swinger, I have just been researching it for this time with you.

Things To Do:

Make very very sure that your partner is on the same place with you, if there is one. Don’t just come in one day and declare it, talk with him or her about it, think it through, and sleep on it, by all means. This is a very serious thing to embark upon and should be treated as such. This relationship’s swinging experience will only work if both of you are into it. If you start it and one isn’t into it, stop immediately and go home where you can regroup. It could be that it just isn’t for your relationship. Continue reading Swingers: Need to Know