The Story of Anal Sex

Anal sex has been a taboo thing for as long as there has been sex, I think. And before I go one step further, let me say, I am a female, so I am not writing this from some horny man perspective but hopefully a more neutral view as best I can. I used to wonder what the allure was for men and anal sex. Typically when I wonder something, I go to my male friends and ask questions and I do some research. This time I did both and was quite interested in the things I learned, so I wanted to pass them along to you, whether you are male or female, you will find out something you may not have known involving anal sex.

Centuries of Anal Sex

You may think that anal sex has only been around for a few decades or so, but let me assure you that it’s been around for well more than decades, try more like centuries. We know this because of the artwork that was done as far back as far as we can and found that men were doing anal on, yes, I mean on, women. Women didn’t much get a choice back then, not when it came to the womanly duties. Men were in charge and anything else was very taboo, and almost never heard about. So let’s stay in the natural stream of things for a minute.

If you go back and look into the art of China, Japan, and Europe, you will see etchings and paintings of men doing anal on women. Ancient drawings and pottery from South America and the Mediterranean will depict men having anal sex on their women.

In some cultures, anal sex was used as a form of birth control so there was no conception. They could still fulfill their sexual needs and not have to worry about a child. This was also seen as “not really sex” just about the same as it is now.

Variety

So here we are in this century again and what I have been able to find out from the guys of today, you know, the ones that are alive and kicking now. They have all been pretty much on the same wave length, when they say that anal sex is a form of variety, as in more ways to fulfill sexual fantasies and needs. They don’t have to worry about any heirs, but they still must be aware of the STDs that can still very much in play. And yes, even like back in the centuries, guys typically think this is not really sex, but their counterparts may differ drastically.

Women VS Men and Anal Sex

When you ask a man about anal sex, you get grunts and groans like you are asking them about their favorite flavor of cake. They are all about the oohs and ahhs of the fantasy of having anal sex. I mean, it isn’t really sex, right? So you think you can just go have anal sex with anyone and it isn’t cheating, because it isn’t sex, as I keep telling you right?

Well hold on cowboy, the women in your life don’t even come close to seeing anal sex as “not really sex”. If your dick is out of your pants and you have it touching any other women, that might as well be full on intercourse, because you are giving away something SHE says is hers. Whether she wants to have anal sex or not, that is a very close and personal thing and is very much a form of a gift where she is concerned. If she wants you both to have anal sex, that is a private thing not to be shared.

So be careful there boys, you may want to rethink your ideas of anal sex to better conform with your partner, because that’s the way it is seen by them.

Anal Sex Hurts

Anal sex for women hurts. I don’t care how big or little the dick is, it hurts, very much the first time. It will always hurt to start, but after she is used to it, it is more of a “hurts so good” situation. And let me say this, if you just go for it and she isn’t ready for it, you may have just blown your only chance to ever try that again. Make damn sure you bring it up, or have a discussion, whatever means you have to go through, but make sure you bring it up before hand, and trust me, that will go a long ways in getting where you want to go.

If you do this the right way, you will find out that most women have more orgasms, not just in the anal part of it, but it makes them feel more adventurous and sensual once they have gone there. They will be more trusting, more relaxed, and more orgasmic as a result.

Taboo, Taboo, Taboo

Where anal sex was once very taboo, is now more common place. The more taboo things once were and are not now, what is next? The next thing to be taboo, when will that one break and the next one begins?

Whatever you decide and whatever your partner wants to share, it is still a naughty thought, even if you do it daily, it makes you feel a little more kinky and not something you are likely to talk about over coffee at the office tomorrow. I think anal will always have a level of taboo because there are always going to be people that have it in their head that that is bad and you shouldn’t do that. It’s always going to have a slap of taboo to it, so just treat it as it is, do as you do, and have fun. No need to think like the ones that are scared of it, just keep this in your own little happy place in your mind as something you smile about in those quiet times.

Solihull wife love dogging

Leeds wife lets strangers grope her ass and jerk off over her.

So this has all come as a shock to me, but it turns out that my wife loves dogging. I always was under the impression that we had a good sex life, all that changed when my wife confessed that she loves dogging. I guess I shouldn’t have been that surprised, she has always been very kinky and she loves hardcore sex. But, having sex in public, could I bring myself to try something like that? My wife thinks I need to talk with other couples that like dogging, she thinks that will calm my nerves and maybe it might even get me to try dogging for myself. I’m not totally sure that’s going to work, but I love my wife and I am going to give it a try. I do need experienced dogging lovers to contact me, just have a chat with me and tell me why my filthy Solihull wife loves dogging so much. I would even be open to you maybe joining us for our first public dogging experience if it all works out this could turn out to be one of the best things we’ve ever done. I’m actually getting more excited about this the more I contemplate it, I guess I might even become a dogging lover myself. View real dogging contacts for yourself.

This weekend coming would be perfect, we both have the entire weekend free and the sooner the better. I can’t wait to tell my wife about it, she is going to be over the moon that I am setting up some dogging Continue reading Solihull wife love dogging

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Mature granny from Dunstable sitting with her legs crossed so you can see her pussy, shaved, pretty and wet.

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How to tell if she’s DTF

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Fancy a bit of roleplay?

I met this guy through the internet called Joe, and to be honest with you I’ve been having the greatest sex of my life with him.  I met him through a UK sex contacts site actually; something I’ve never even contemplated before.  I shocked myself when I joined.  It was really easy, in fact perhaps a little too easy.

My first thoughts about the whole thing were that I might get a real weirdo stalking me or something.  However, the first guy I met was Joe and I haven’t even bothered looking for anyone else.  The way I figure it is that if I kept pushing my luck by getting other guys through the website, eventually I’d hit a weirdo; I’ve been stung this way before you see, although not through a website.  I have a habit of attracting nutters.  I know it’s irrational, and I’ve never heard any horror stories connected with the sex contacts; I suppose I’m just happy with the guy I’ve got.

I’ll tell you a little about him.  You already know his name, but get a load of this.  He is around 6ft 4inches tall, slim and muscular, with slightly greying, short dark hair.  He reminds me of a tall version of George Clooney or something.  In actual fact I was surprised that a guy like Joe was on a website like this in the first place.  Apparently he can’t get enough of sex and he’s tired of going out looking for girls all the time, he’d much rather find a few on a website where he knows he’s getting sex guaranteed!

I don’t mind the fact that he sees other women, and I haven’t told him that I’m satisfied with just him, it might flatter his ego a little too much.  I don’t have a problem with him having sex with others, it’s not like I own him or anything; in fact it makes it much more interesting.

Our favourite thing is roleplay.  When we meet we often pretend we’ve never met, or I sometimes pretend to be a doctor who is going to visit a patient privately.  This is awesome, and because we don’t see each other very regularly it works really well.  I always make sure I’ve got a different outfit on when I meet him, and this way he sometimes struggle to pick me out in a crowded bar when he walks in.  The roleplay extends to the bedroom and the doctor thing works really well here.  I start giving him an examination and insist on examining him you know where.  Well I’m sure you can tell where it goes from there can’t you?  Do I really need to go into graphic detail?  I don’t think so.

There really isn’t anything better for you if you just want casual, no strings sex.  A sex contacts site is a definite winner for everyone involved!  Just practice safe sex all the time.