Have you ever given a minutes thought to how sex positions play roles on your intimacy with your partner? Probably not, most couples don’t, it is not something we plan like tomorrows dinner. Most of the time, sex is not a planned thing, we go with what feels good at the time. But, did you know that certain positions can actually help you fall in love? I bet you didn’t, I know I sure didn’t, not until recently anyway. I have been married for a very long time and my husband and I are in love, so why fix or improve on something that’s working, right? Let’s go through a few of these positions and see what we can learn together. Continue reading Sex Positions and Falling in Love
Being married for as long as my wife and I have isn’t always as easy as they show you on the soap operas. When two people grow together their opinions of each other change and their tastes change too with the passing of time. To keep a relationship strong you have to evolve; well at least that’s what my wife and I have discovered. It may not be the same for everyone, and of course there are different ways in which we evolve, but for us it was sexually. Something had to change for us sexually because we were both getting a little bored with the same old routine. We wanted excitement and adventure.
We tried roleplay and meeting in hotels etc but it just seemed laughable because there was no anxiety attached to it, and no real adventure. It was then that we turned to UK sex contacts and realised that there were thousands of people out there, both in and out of relationships, that we all dying to revitalise their sex life and have a little fun with their free time. People don’t just want to go home and do the regular stuff every night; they might think they do, but let me tell you once you’ve tried doing something else completely different you’ll never look back. This is how it was with the sex contacts.
The first meeting we arranged was in the next town to us because we didn’t want to get seen. It was exciting just getting ready and not telling people where we were going etc; it felt like something secret and special and we were already both feeling very horny. We could have probably gone to bed with each other there and then as we got ready just from the excitement, but we decided to go through with it. And what an excellent decision it was. We both had a wonderful time with two of the best people we’ve ever met in our entire lives. They’d been using sex contacts for a long time and told us some amazing stories about their sex lives. It was wonderful to speak so frankly about sex with a couple who we barely new, and it was an excellent run up to what we were planning to do later in the evening. This is the thing that everyone who uses sex contacts says about it, that the pressure is completely gone because all parties involved know that there is sex on the menu for later on; that’s why you’ve met. It’s amazing how liberating it is to sit with your wife across a table with another couple and know that you’re going to be having sex with them later on in the evening.
My husband and I have been experiencing difficult sexually for the last 15 months and we’ve been looking into various ways to revitalise things in the bedroom but have failed miserably. It’s not that we don’t love each other anymore, or even that we’re no longer attracted to each other; it’s just that something has been missing. We managed to fill that gap however with UK sex contacts. We’ve been dating other people now for around three months and things have never been better. They say that some couples need this sort of adventure in their sex lives and we’re both beginning to understand just how important it is now.
It all began with my husband fooling around on the computer one night and coming across a UK sex contacts website that looked pretty interesting. He said that perhaps we should look into doing something like this together. He said it in that kind of way that appeared to be jokey to begin with, but he was clearly gauging my reaction. I told him I’d be prepared to give anything a go and joked that we’re not having sex with each other so we may as well do it with someone else! We filled out the introduction etc together that evening before we went to bed.
By the morning we had a number of requests to contact and chat etc. We found another couple on there who seemed just like us. They too said that they were experiencing difficulties in their sex life and they had decided to join this site because a friend told them that they allow couples to interact on it too. I had always thought that these sort of sites were for single people only; or at least those looking for single sexual encounters. After chatting with this couple online for a few weeks we actually decided to go for it and meet them in a hotel not far away.
When we met them we found them to be exactly the same as us. They were both nervous and both clearly still thinking about whether or not they were doing the right thing. I think this is why we all got on so well together. Not only was it the first time for all concerned, but it was clear and present in everyone’s mind that we were going to have sex. It’s amazing how this kind of realisation presents you with the ability to drop all of your inhibitions at just the right time. That night we booked a room and invited this new couple of join us for drinks and some pretty adventurous sex. That night was the first time I’d engaged in anything sexual with my husband for a long time. We thoroughly enjoyed it, and now when we’re alone at home we’re constantly recalling our nights out with other couples; it really gets us going in the bedroom!