The above title is exactly what a lot of married housewives that use our site are thinking and posting, it’s the title of most of the adverts posted by married women who use our casual sex site. I understand their frustration, I was married for 15 years and for the last 5 years though I loved my husband and enjoyed sex with him I was never satisfied, I broached the idea of spicing up our sex lives a few times, I offered to let another lady in our bed in return for another men the next time, I mentioned swinging clubs and sex clubs but he was never interested, my ex husband would never even dare to have sex outdoors which is a fantasy I have always had. As time went on the more frustrated I got and the more I needed to be fucked by another man and in the end I felt I had no choice but to seek sex else where and cheat on my husband. Been a rather busty and curvy lady and been almost 40 I did at first find it hard to meet a man for discreet sex, I mean I couldn’t just go up to the nearest bloke and say “please sir will you take me somewhere and fuck me?” he would think I was a total nutter or a filthy whore, he could of been married up like most men doesn’t find a middle aged over weight lady attractive and laugh at me! Continue reading I’m a cheating housewife that needs to be fucked
My husband is crippled and unable to have sex anymore. It took a long time to adjust to not having sex and although it sounds like I’m being selfish, I have spent many years like this, unable to get myself sexual satisfaction. However, my husband is a good man, and he asked me about it, and actually assumed that I had been having sex elsewhere anyway. When I told him I hadn’t he was mortified and decided that the best thing I could do would be to get myself some form of sexual entertainment. We were always very liberated sexually, but I never thought I’d hear him saying this. I guess this is what love is?
We looked into sex contacts on the internet and found it quite popular and easy to get involved in. I didn’t really want to do anything special, just maybe feel a man against my body again. I wanted him to be a good man, yet someone who understood my problem and didn’t encroach on my private life with my husband. Well, as it turns out, this is exactly what the sex contacts websites all had in common; they encouraged you to simply have sexual relationships. I found a guy and I’ve managed to maintain a healthy sex life with him without putting any strain at all on my marriage. My husband and I are still intimate in some ways, but never to the level I get from my sex contact.
You must understand however, as much as I enjoy having sex with my contact, I do not love him at all. I care about him and know a little about it, but not much. This is my choice and I like to keep this distance between us. Not only does it allow my marriage to remain unaffected by silly details, it also makes the sexual encounters that little bit more thrilling; the guy still feels like a stranger and I’ve found that I like that a lot. Who says you need to have sex with your husband all the time to make a marriage work? We are very happy together and I honestly think that even if it wasn’t for the accident, we may well have looked into this kind of sex contact service as a couple anyway; it isn’t as if we haven’t experimented before.
Some people I’ve chatted to via the online sex contacts websites have many partners out there and they like to swap around a little every now and then. I can see the fun element of this, but personally I think that if I was to do this it might be pushing the boundaries of my marriage. I went into the sex contacts world to find one man who I could see occasionally for no strings sex and that’s what I got; I really don’t think I’d be interested in a string of lovers, I don’t have the time or the energy!