Have you ever given a minutes thought to how sex positions play roles on your intimacy with your partner? Probably not, most couples don’t, it is not something we plan like tomorrows dinner. Most of the time, sex is not a planned thing, we go with what feels good at the time. But, did you know that certain positions can actually help you fall in love? I bet you didn’t, I know I sure didn’t, not until recently anyway. I have been married for a very long time and my husband and I are in love, so why fix or improve on something that’s working, right? Let’s go through a few of these positions and see what we can learn together. Continue reading Sex Positions and Falling in Love
There is absolutely nothing there to stop you having a good time sexually. There, it’s time someone said it. If you’re in a loveless marriage then get out of it and have some fun, you only live once you know and there are so many other things to enjoy. I offer this advice to you because I’ve suffered at the hands of fate and have since realised that I need to have a lot more fun than I was having. My wife of 15 years left me last year and to be perfectly honest I think it’s the best things she’s ever done for me. I didn’t do anything wrong apparently, we just drifted apart. I can see what she means actually, and I’m so glad she made the move. We speak often and get along very well as friends now.
I’m quite a sexual person and I have to admit if there was anything I missed about my marriage it was the sex. My wife was always pretty good in this department and I never had any reason to complain, however, since I’ve been single I’ve never had so much fun. I joined a UK sex contacts website to meet other people like me and to basically see what it was all about. I’ve never joined anything like this before; in fact I don’t think I’ve ever joined anything before to be perfectly honest!
This sex contacts site opened my eyes to a world of possibilities. At first I thought it would be populated primarily with hookers trying to charge me for sex once I meet them, but it really isn’t. I never dreamed there would be so many women out there looking for casual sex; I thought this was a man’s game to be honest.
The first woman I met was in her 40s and she was so hot I couldn’t believe my luck. When I was single before I’d have been lucky if a woman like this had even looked at me; I mean, to me this woman was grade A and I actually didn’t expect her to go through with it. However, it turned out that she really went for my type. I suppose I never had the confidence to realise that I was someone’s type, and if that certain someone happened to be very hot indeed then it’s all good. There is no accounting for taste, so they say. Suffice to say she was certainly my type!
We met in the lobby of a hotel in the city and decided to have a couple of drinks. She never even mentioned the sex part of it during our drinks, and I don’t think at that time she really realised I was a first timer at this. When we finished our drinks she simply stood and said: “shall we go to the room now?” in such a matter of fact way that it shocked me. It was then that she realised how new I was to the whole sex contacts business. She was very good about it all and explained how things happen usually. I had a fantastic time and have since seen her probably 15 times now.
I’ve been single for over two years now. I find it hard to meet guys because I don’t have a very forgiving job and my friends are few and far between. Before I hooked up with UK sex dating I didn’t get any action at all in the bedroom (or anywhere else!), but now I can get my kicks and still maintain my lifestyle and job the way I want and need to. Personally I think that relationships are getting dated now anyway, and I’m not just saying that because I haven’t been in one for a while. When you consider how much stuff we all have to do these days it’s a wonder we find any time at all to spend with a “partner”. Why have one?
So the sex dating thing allows me this freedom and it allows me to have lots of fun when I want it. There are no risks involved at all the way I see it. If you’re going out on your own or with friends to meet people in a pub or club when there has clearly been alcohol involved, you’re asking for more trouble than you’re going to get from a guy you’ve checked out online, you’ve been chatting with for weeks, and who isn’t going to be drunk when he meets you! This is a huge bonus believe me. The amount of guys in the city at work who try to get me down the pub when we’ve finished and then subsequently try to get in my knickers is astonishing; they should be ashamed of themselves, not people who use sex dating!
Don’t get me wrong though, I’m not seeing a hundred different guys. I only see a few select guys that I’ve been seeing for a long time now. If one of them decides that he’s had enough or wants someone else then I’ll probably move onto someone new. This happens all the time in the sex dating community and the beauty of it is, is that no-one gets annoyed or upset by this event. We all know that there is another sex dater just around the corner waiting to meet you and that you’ve probably got a number of them on the go at the same time. All I will add to this is that if you do anything unprotected then you’re an idiot. I don’t know anyone who does this and I’ve met a lot of people in this community.
It really is the ultimate freedom and something that our parents wouldn’t have dreamed of being able to do! This is the way the world is evolving and it’s about time everyone realised that you don’t have to be in a long lasting, tolerant and monogamous relationship to live your life. You can get support from friends and family, and have your sex elsewhere; my belief is that you should keep them all very separate indeed!