To Be Love and Date a BBW

Let me tell you one thing before we go one word further, if any of this article offends, it is not my point. I do not and would never judge or degrade anyone. I do have to do research for my articles and sometimes something said may offend someone, but that isn’t me, I am not like that. So please keep this in mind when I move on with this. I know a lot of men here on UK Sex Contacts that absolutely love big women, they would not ever even consider looking at someone that has the perfect body, so to speak. To these guys, big IS the perfect body, and they are not shy about it.

I know what people say and I see what they do when they see big girls shopping, or walking around the town I live in or just being who they are, and it makes me sick at my stomach. I am a female, I am sure you are aware of that by now. But the one thing that makes me crazy is when people point and laugh at people for being who the hell they are. The people that turn me on the most, as human beings, are those that are happy being who they are, no matter who they are with or what they look like. So, having said all of this, and given you as little about ME as we go from here, let’s go, ok?

What is the Attraction

The first and most obvious attraction, it’s a personal preference, obviously! The bigger women are not as apt to be too concerned about all the hype about losing weight, the latest diet trend, the socialistic ideals that we have all been so forced to believe when it comes to what we look like. These women do not buy into the whole “you are not attractive if you are fat”. These women are comfortable in their own skin and therefore are able to not feel so self conscious like the more “perfect” women are.

To me, some of the most beautiful women are those that are clean, they aren’t dressed like a slut, they are covered with beauty and class without a speck of makeup or tan on their bodies. Unlike the perfect girls, big women are in all shapes and sizes, not the exact same build as the next girl.

What Makes Them Different

The very word different is what makes them different. While most women look very similar, a BBW will not look anything like the next one. You can have 10 BBWs and every damn one of them will look vastly different than the next. They can weigh the same, down to the pound, but look drastically different. Each and every damn one of them are so beautiful, and I don’t mean “in their own way”, I mean they are just damn gorgeous.

Now, let me say this, there are big women and there are BBWs, there is a very very big difference. There are the group that are big, some very big and some just chubby, and that is perfectly fine, but in this group, they are not happy with their bodies, they have taken the bully remarks to heart and they are just not happy. They become bitchy and lash out at anyone that even looks at them at all, not even sideways. Those are not the ones I am talking about here. The BBW group, the ones that dress with class, carry themselves with great pride and don’t seem to be even shaken a little by any look, good or bad.

Dating BBW Women

So you really like a BBW style of women but you really are not sure how to go about dating them? Some men just have a knack for finding what they want and not coming off like dicks, they have the charisma and don’t mind showing a BBW the attention to let them know that they are truly interested, not just showing off or being a dick. But not everyone has that personality. Say you are just a little shy about it, but you are so damn turned on by big women, but where in the hell do you find them? Is there a community for finding BBWs? Of course there is.

Go and Google BBW Dating Sites, and I bet you find more than you can handle. Do your homework and make sure you aren’t in some place that just abuses them or treats them like shit. Find the ones where there is a need for BBW and for them to be welcoming. Where there is a need, there is a source. There is always a source to find what you are after. More so today than there was back in the days before the internet.

I am a female, like I said in the front of this article. I am very much straight and have been married for eons, so that is not an issue here. But I am a people watcher, and I love seeing people who just carry themselves in a manor in which they aren’t ready to attack or crawl under a shelf somewhere. I see so many women that are just gorgeous for the sake of being gorgeous, and you know what? 95% of those girls are BBWs. The smaller, petite girls, in most cases are in groups and you know what they are doing? They are buying the same damn clothes in the same damn sizes and makeup in the same damn colors and styles.

Just be you, do you, and enjoy who you are. No one else matters but you, and enjoy who you are and who you love. The more people that do this, the better life would be for us all right? I don’t mean to preach, I just love when people do their own thing.

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