It’s not all about meeting new people when you begin sex contacts. When I joined up and started looking for sex contacts I slept with a lot of people, but now I only meet up with two. This is enough for me and I don’t need any more than that. Many people want to have as many as possible, but to me this defies the objective of the website. You can be on there all the time if you like, seeing as many people as you can, but if you do this you might end up with a lot of first night unrewarding experiences.
I find that once I’ve found someone, I try to hang onto him as long as possible simply because I know that once he gets to know my body and what I like, the sex will be fantastic; I’ve never been wrong yet. Those first time nervous sessions are rarely revelatory to me these days so I’d much rather just do them and get them out of the way. This is why I often go for a nice person who I can get to know as well as screw.
Now, this does tend to freak out a few men I’ve met in the past and that’s why it’s taken me so long to find these two dependable guys I have. I have them pretty much on tap when I want them and I love this feeling. Don’t get me wrong, I know they came from a sex contacts website and you simply have to accept the fact that these guys will never be faithful to you or anyone else; but then that’s not what you want is it? Otherwise you’d be on a regular dating site wouldn’t you?
The important part for me is getting the sex right. I’ve had other lovers through the sex contacts that just haven’t been able to do it how I like it, and to be honest, I’ve been brutally honest with them. I don’t believe in just not calling someone again and not telling them why; and in one particular case I had a guy come back to me for a one off to prove to me that he’d improved his technique. He certainly had, let me tell you. Sadly there wasn’t a space for him in my life at the time.
I like to keep them fresh however, so I do change them around a little now and again; but I will never be having sex with more than two guys at the same time, it’s just too much trouble trying to keep up. They get dumped for a number of reasons, but mostly it’s because they become a little demanding and want to see me more often than I do them. This is irritating and not what sex contacts should be like. It’s a way of life for me and a big part of my social activity.