I’ve been single for over two years now. I find it hard to meet guys because I don’t have a very forgiving job and my friends are few and far between. Before I hooked up with UK sex dating I didn’t get any action at all in the bedroom (or anywhere else!), but now I can get my kicks and still maintain my lifestyle and job the way I want and need to. Personally I think that relationships are getting dated now anyway, and I’m not just saying that because I haven’t been in one for a while. When you consider how much stuff we all have to do these days it’s a wonder we find any time at all to spend with a “partner”. Why have one?
So the sex dating thing allows me this freedom and it allows me to have lots of fun when I want it. There are no risks involved at all the way I see it. If you’re going out on your own or with friends to meet people in a pub or club when there has clearly been alcohol involved, you’re asking for more trouble than you’re going to get from a guy you’ve checked out online, you’ve been chatting with for weeks, and who isn’t going to be drunk when he meets you! This is a huge bonus believe me. The amount of guys in the city at work who try to get me down the pub when we’ve finished and then subsequently try to get in my knickers is astonishing; they should be ashamed of themselves, not people who use sex dating!
Don’t get me wrong though, I’m not seeing a hundred different guys. I only see a few select guys that I’ve been seeing for a long time now. If one of them decides that he’s had enough or wants someone else then I’ll probably move onto someone new. This happens all the time in the sex dating community and the beauty of it is, is that no-one gets annoyed or upset by this event. We all know that there is another sex dater just around the corner waiting to meet you and that you’ve probably got a number of them on the go at the same time. All I will add to this is that if you do anything unprotected then you’re an idiot. I don’t know anyone who does this and I’ve met a lot of people in this community.
It really is the ultimate freedom and something that our parents wouldn’t have dreamed of being able to do! This is the way the world is evolving and it’s about time everyone realised that you don’t have to be in a long lasting, tolerant and monogamous relationship to live your life. You can get support from friends and family, and have your sex elsewhere; my belief is that you should keep them all very separate indeed!