Being married for as long as my wife and I have isn’t always as easy as they show you on the soap operas. When two people grow together their opinions of each other change and their tastes change too with the passing of time. To keep a relationship strong you have to evolve; well at least that’s what my wife and I have discovered. It may not be the same for everyone, and of course there are different ways in which we evolve, but for us it was sexually. Something had to change for us sexually because we were both getting a little bored with the same old routine. We wanted excitement and adventure.
We tried roleplay and meeting in hotels etc but it just seemed laughable because there was no anxiety attached to it, and no real adventure. It was then that we turned to UK sex contacts and realised that there were thousands of people out there, both in and out of relationships, that we all dying to revitalise their sex life and have a little fun with their free time. People don’t just want to go home and do the regular stuff every night; they might think they do, but let me tell you once you’ve tried doing something else completely different you’ll never look back. This is how it was with the sex contacts.
The first meeting we arranged was in the next town to us because we didn’t want to get seen. It was exciting just getting ready and not telling people where we were going etc; it felt like something secret and special and we were already both feeling very horny. We could have probably gone to bed with each other there and then as we got ready just from the excitement, but we decided to go through with it. And what an excellent decision it was. We both had a wonderful time with two of the best people we’ve ever met in our entire lives. They’d been using sex contacts for a long time and told us some amazing stories about their sex lives. It was wonderful to speak so frankly about sex with a couple who we barely new, and it was an excellent run up to what we were planning to do later in the evening. This is the thing that everyone who uses sex contacts says about it, that the pressure is completely gone because all parties involved know that there is sex on the menu for later on; that’s why you’ve met. It’s amazing how liberating it is to sit with your wife across a table with another couple and know that you’re going to be having sex with them later on in the evening.
My husband and I have been swingers for longer than we can remember. We’re not getting any younger you see. We have so much experience of it however that it had almost become a little boring circulating in the same gatherings all the time with the same people. You see, to us swinging meant meeting new people and having new sex and experiences and when you’re in a swingers group with a load of others who you’ve known for a while it begins to get a bit the same; almost like your married to them too! This is why we decided to look at UK sex contacts to see if we could mix it up a little.
We had a wonderful first experience with this website and we now meet loads of new people every month. We’re both retired now, but it doesn’t seem to stop us or even slow us down, and you’d be amazed at how many young couples out there that want to experiment with an older, more experienced pair. We even see single guys and girls too who get in touch with us; we’re not choosy really, we just want to have fun like when we first started to swing.
Now because we meet all these new people we’re able to revitalise our own sex lives, but also those of our previous swingers club. You see, because some of these people are our lifelong friends we still go along to have some fun, and now we’ve had so many new experiences we’re able to share them with our old friends at the club; a couple of them have even gone off and signed up on UK sex contacts website now they know how good they are.
What we’ve realised out of the whole sex contacts experience is that you’re never too old to try out something new and meet new people. Age doesn’t seem to make a bit of difference these days and to be perfectly honest my husband and I never thought we’d see the day. Now when we meet up with new people we can sometimes be twice their age or even more; this is absolutely wonderful. If we were intending to chat someone of this age up in a bar it would be nearly impossible, but because the meeting bit is all out the way and everyone knows that there is going to be sex involved it’s as though inhibitions are thrown out the window and everyone falls into place with their desires. This is how we were meant to live and be with others in our opinion.
I’m a plumber and despite what everyone cares to think about plumbers getting to have their wicked way with horny housewives it’s not true. I wish it was true because I’d have had a lot more action, but it’s not and that’s all there is to it. However, I do get a lot of action from my UK sex contacts website. I’ve been a member for over a year now and I’ve been persuaded to write down what I think of the whole thing to give you all a little insight from an old hand at it.
The whole thing is very easy to use, and this is what attracted me to it in the first place. The site looked really good and I was going through a particularly rough patch, having just split up from my wife after 10 years of marriage (that’s a story of its own!) I wanted a distraction and I needed to have sex, it’s as simple as that. The site gave me everything it offered and more. You think initially that it’s all going to be contacting through the site and paying money out all the time, but it really isn’t, and once you’ve met a couple of good sex contacts that you trust you can exchange contact information directly anyway.
The first few encounters were a bit weird to tell the truth, and to be perfectly honest I felt as though I should have paid the girls I met for sex! I know that sounds awful but there you go. Knowing what I know now about sex dating however, they probably thought exactly the same thing. The thing you need to remember is that both of you are after the same thing; sex. It’s simple once you get going!
Now I see quite a few different women on regular occasions and I’m so happy in my life that I couldn’t begin to describe it to you. Women are wonderful, but they are placed firmly in their place with the sex dating. They don’t bother your work, your social life or indeed anything else, and you only need to meet them for sex when you want to. You obviously need to maintain a respectful relationship with them, but it’s not heavy like a real relationship. To be honest with you, I don’t think I ever want another relationship as long as I live; I’ve got everything I need in my life at the moment and I’ve got it all just where I want it!
For anyone even considering sex dating I would say go for it. What have you got to lose? There are more women out there than you can possibly imagine and they all want to have sex with guys who feel the same way about relationships as I do. One thing is for sure, you will not meet anyone who wants to tie you down (figuratively of course, you may actually want to be tied down physically!)
My name is Dave and I’ve been married for a couple of years now. My wife and I have a great sex life. It’s always varied and I don’t seem to need anything else at all from her. However, over the last couple of months I really wanted (not needed) to get something else involved in our sex life. I have a pretty high sex drive and need to be doing it virtually all the time when I’m home from work. I’m lucky that the wife does too; god knows what we’ll do when we decide to have kids!
Anyway, back to the story. I mentioned it to the wife that I would like to get involved with some other people when we have sex. At first she was really concerned and thought that I’d been having an affair or something, but when it came down to it she soon realised that she too wouldn’t mind experimenting a little; like she said “you only live once.” So we decided to use an online UK sex contacts website. We were amazed at the amount of people we saw on there, from all walks of life, all different ages etc. What surprised us the most was that there were quite a number of other couples on the site who also wanted to spice things up a little in the bedroom.
It didn’t take us long to introduce ourselves to three different couples. We were really lucky because my wife is really hot and anyone on that site would want to have sex with her; I did all the time! We had a few single guys coming onto my wife, but she wouldn’t entertain them at all, she wanted to do this with me and another couple, they were the rules of engagement according to her. UK sex contacts had an easy way of getting in touch with these three couples and before long we were chatting online and discussing fantasies and all kinds of other stuff.
We arranged to meet a couple who we both liked the look off. The woman was really hot; not as hot as my wife, but hot in a different way. She was older than my wife and looked as though she could teach me a thing or two about sex. We met them in a pub and shared a drink before going back to their place. Apparently they were old hands at this sex contacts business so they showed us the ropes and what was usual etiquette in meetings etc. It wasn’t rocket science or anything. The sex we had that night happened so easily and was so enjoyable that we’ve managed to stay in touch with the couple and still see them at least once a month for fun. We’re so familiar with them now that we can even call each other up and put in requests about underwear and outfits etc. It’s lots of fun and we would highly recommend it.
My name is Theresa and I married very early in life; some would argue a little too early. I went to a catholic school and new nothing of sex really until I left. Then I met a man in the forces and we settled down and had some kids etc etc. Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to make out that this was a bad time in my life. This was one of the best times I’ve ever had. Being married to my husband, no passed away, and having my wonderful children was amazing and I still enjoy my children and grandchildren today.
That’s right, I’m in my sixties now, but it doesn’t stop me living my life. A friend of mine told me to get involved with meeting people when my husband passed on, and this is what I’ve been doing for the last four years of my life. Being retired gives me lots of time to go out and meet people, but I have a very high sex drive and can’t get sex contacts from the Rambler’s Association! However, I can get great friendship and companions that I enjoy spending quality time with.
The other quality time I get is sex. I get my sex from a number of different men, some younger, and some around the same age as myself. We meet informally and in various places through a UK sex contacts website. This was introduced to me by a very good friend of mine who also uses the service. If there is anything I can recommend to anyone, of all ages, then it’s this! Sex contacts are the new thing and even a woman of my age can appreciate what they have to offer.
I’m no spring chicken, but I consider myself to still have a pretty good body and I know that I have an insatiable appetite for sex. The best thing about meeting my sex contacts is that it gives me something a little naughty to look forward to each week and an excuse to get dressed up and have some fun. Sometimes we go out and have something to eat even or a few drinks; it’s not always meeting and having sex, although these times are also very welcome indeed. It’s good to mix things up at my age, it keeps me youthful and on my toes.
Another amazing thing about having sex contacts is that they never hassle you about meeting up. This is because they often have a number of people they see. This keeps us all out of each other’s hair and able to get on with the rest of our lives. Sometimes I don’t feel like getting in touch with one of my sex contacts at all for a while, but I know that when I do feel like it I can just pick up where I left off, like having a really good friend who puts no pressure on you at all.
My husband and I have been experiencing difficult sexually for the last 15 months and we’ve been looking into various ways to revitalise things in the bedroom but have failed miserably. It’s not that we don’t love each other anymore, or even that we’re no longer attracted to each other; it’s just that something has been missing. We managed to fill that gap however with UK sex contacts. We’ve been dating other people now for around three months and things have never been better. They say that some couples need this sort of adventure in their sex lives and we’re both beginning to understand just how important it is now.
It all began with my husband fooling around on the computer one night and coming across a UK sex contacts website that looked pretty interesting. He said that perhaps we should look into doing something like this together. He said it in that kind of way that appeared to be jokey to begin with, but he was clearly gauging my reaction. I told him I’d be prepared to give anything a go and joked that we’re not having sex with each other so we may as well do it with someone else! We filled out the introduction etc together that evening before we went to bed.
By the morning we had a number of requests to contact and chat etc. We found another couple on there who seemed just like us. They too said that they were experiencing difficulties in their sex life and they had decided to join this site because a friend told them that they allow couples to interact on it too. I had always thought that these sort of sites were for single people only; or at least those looking for single sexual encounters. After chatting with this couple online for a few weeks we actually decided to go for it and meet them in a hotel not far away.
When we met them we found them to be exactly the same as us. They were both nervous and both clearly still thinking about whether or not they were doing the right thing. I think this is why we all got on so well together. Not only was it the first time for all concerned, but it was clear and present in everyone’s mind that we were going to have sex. It’s amazing how this kind of realisation presents you with the ability to drop all of your inhibitions at just the right time. That night we booked a room and invited this new couple of join us for drinks and some pretty adventurous sex. That night was the first time I’d engaged in anything sexual with my husband for a long time. We thoroughly enjoyed it, and now when we’re alone at home we’re constantly recalling our nights out with other couples; it really gets us going in the bedroom!
My husband is crippled and unable to have sex anymore. It took a long time to adjust to not having sex and although it sounds like I’m being selfish, I have spent many years like this, unable to get myself sexual satisfaction. However, my husband is a good man, and he asked me about it, and actually assumed that I had been having sex elsewhere anyway. When I told him I hadn’t he was mortified and decided that the best thing I could do would be to get myself some form of sexual entertainment. We were always very liberated sexually, but I never thought I’d hear him saying this. I guess this is what love is?
We looked into sex contacts on the internet and found it quite popular and easy to get involved in. I didn’t really want to do anything special, just maybe feel a man against my body again. I wanted him to be a good man, yet someone who understood my problem and didn’t encroach on my private life with my husband. Well, as it turns out, this is exactly what the sex contacts websites all had in common; they encouraged you to simply have sexual relationships. I found a guy and I’ve managed to maintain a healthy sex life with him without putting any strain at all on my marriage. My husband and I are still intimate in some ways, but never to the level I get from my sex contact.
You must understand however, as much as I enjoy having sex with my contact, I do not love him at all. I care about him and know a little about it, but not much. This is my choice and I like to keep this distance between us. Not only does it allow my marriage to remain unaffected by silly details, it also makes the sexual encounters that little bit more thrilling; the guy still feels like a stranger and I’ve found that I like that a lot. Who says you need to have sex with your husband all the time to make a marriage work? We are very happy together and I honestly think that even if it wasn’t for the accident, we may well have looked into this kind of sex contact service as a couple anyway; it isn’t as if we haven’t experimented before.
Some people I’ve chatted to via the online sex contacts websites have many partners out there and they like to swap around a little every now and then. I can see the fun element of this, but personally I think that if I was to do this it might be pushing the boundaries of my marriage. I went into the sex contacts world to find one man who I could see occasionally for no strings sex and that’s what I got; I really don’t think I’d be interested in a string of lovers, I don’t have the time or the energy!
I’ve been single for over two years now. I find it hard to meet guys because I don’t have a very forgiving job and my friends are few and far between. Before I hooked up with UK sex dating I didn’t get any action at all in the bedroom (or anywhere else!), but now I can get my kicks and still maintain my lifestyle and job the way I want and need to. Personally I think that relationships are getting dated now anyway, and I’m not just saying that because I haven’t been in one for a while. When you consider how much stuff we all have to do these days it’s a wonder we find any time at all to spend with a “partner”. Why have one?
So the sex dating thing allows me this freedom and it allows me to have lots of fun when I want it. There are no risks involved at all the way I see it. If you’re going out on your own or with friends to meet people in a pub or club when there has clearly been alcohol involved, you’re asking for more trouble than you’re going to get from a guy you’ve checked out online, you’ve been chatting with for weeks, and who isn’t going to be drunk when he meets you! This is a huge bonus believe me. The amount of guys in the city at work who try to get me down the pub when we’ve finished and then subsequently try to get in my knickers is astonishing; they should be ashamed of themselves, not people who use sex dating!
Don’t get me wrong though, I’m not seeing a hundred different guys. I only see a few select guys that I’ve been seeing for a long time now. If one of them decides that he’s had enough or wants someone else then I’ll probably move onto someone new. This happens all the time in the sex dating community and the beauty of it is, is that no-one gets annoyed or upset by this event. We all know that there is another sex dater just around the corner waiting to meet you and that you’ve probably got a number of them on the go at the same time. All I will add to this is that if you do anything unprotected then you’re an idiot. I don’t know anyone who does this and I’ve met a lot of people in this community.
It really is the ultimate freedom and something that our parents wouldn’t have dreamed of being able to do! This is the way the world is evolving and it’s about time everyone realised that you don’t have to be in a long lasting, tolerant and monogamous relationship to live your life. You can get support from friends and family, and have your sex elsewhere; my belief is that you should keep them all very separate indeed!
When it comes to dating I’ve never had too much trouble to tell the truth. And no, I’m not particularly modest either! LOL! However, I do suffer with one problem when it comes to dating. Some guys take a hell of a long time to get me into bed and I want to have sex almost straight away. I understand how it works though, and it pisses me off. If I jump into bed with a guy on our first date I get labelled a slag; if he does it he gets a pat on the back however. You just can’t run with these social boundaries these days! So I decided to take a different angle on dating. Sex dating.
My experience of picking up guys in pubs and clubs hasn’t been the best by any means. I’ve usually been a little worse for wear and the guys have been even worse, and I’ve always regretted it in the morning. With sex dating it’s completely different because you know that the only reason you’re meeting the guy is to have sex with him. What you have to remember is to check out his profile real good online first. I’m not talking about what he does for a living or anything else like that, I’m talking about his body and the way he looks; it’s all about good sex!
That’s all I really wanted out of online sex dating, and so far that’s all I’ve had. Granted, I’ve had a few disappointments, but this happens anyway when you’re going out trying to get laid! I usually arrange to meet my dates in a pub or a coffee shop or something like that. This way it’s easier to run away if someone else turns up; not that this has happened to me, but you need to be safe. The great thing about meeting is that all that old style dating is gone. You don’t have to have someone wearing a particular colour flower or scarf or whatever! LOL! Now you’ve already seen them online and hopefully chatted to them too. You should have plenty to talk about before you get them in the bedroom.
I know, I’m awful aren’t I? The true predatory female. But this is what I want to do, and it’s what the guys seem to like too. There’s nothing like putting yourself on the same level as the guys in this day and age; why should they have all the fun anyway. Do yourself a favour and use them as though they were toys, because essentially they are!
This is one hell of a tale! I’ve never been so excited to tell anyone this story before. I’ve been a member of a UK sex dating website for a few weeks now and I’ve been laid three times. This is good for me. It would usually take me around two years to get this much action on my own, generally because I’m a lazy git who never gets his arse off the sofa to go out and meet people. As it happens I didn’t need to get my arse off the sofa because I could get all the action I needed by sitting completely still and comfortable on my sofa with the lap top.
The site put me in touch with these girls who all wanted to get laid. Yes, you read it correctly, they all wanted to get laid above anything else! They weren’t the slightest bit interested in me, what I did, what my aspirations in life were, or any of that claptrap; all they wanted was a good shag! These girls have the brains of guys I reckon! What more could you want? I bet half the married men in the UK wish their wives were like this and didn’t bother them with the colour of the carpets etc!
To be brutally honest with you, I can’t even remember the name of the first girl I got laid with! I know, it sounds bad doesn’t it? However, I know that she’d be happy with that knowledge and she knows that if she wants a return visit she can contact me through the website anytime she likes. Great isn’t it? The last one I had was called Sarah and this was only a couple of nights ago. I definitely be seeing her again.
Sarah was into some real kinky shit and I loved every minute of it. The great thing about the sex dating website is that you can chat to the girl online for a while if you like before getting together; so I had a good idea what she was expecting and what she wanted to do on our sex date! She was one of these bondage specialists or something; she’d been doing it for years with as many guys as she could find that would let her smack them around a little. I didn’t mind as long as I got my way in the end; she agreed and a good night was had by us both (although I have to admit that I am a little sore around the rear end!)
As far as recommending it is concerned, I almost don’t want to because they’ll be more girls for me. But when you see just how many girls are on these sites these days you’ll realise that they’re coming out of the kitchen guys because they all just want a good seeing to with no strings attached.