Let me tell you one thing before we go one word further, if any of this article offends, it is not my point. I do not and would never judge or degrade anyone. I do have to do research for my articles and sometimes something said may offend someone, but that isn’t me, I am not like that. So please keep this in mind when I move on with this. I know a lot of men here on UK Sex Contacts that absolutely love big women, they would not ever even consider looking at someone that has the perfect body, so to speak. To these guys, big IS the perfect body, and they are not shy about it. Continue reading To Be Love and Date a BBW
I have been invited to be in a swingers club with a party taking place at the Vanilla Alternative in St Neots, Cambridgeshire, but to this date, it hasn’t happened and never will. That’s just not my scene. Having said that, what you do with your sex life, that’s totally your call to make and you shouldn’t be judged if that’s your scene. But let’s talk about a few things. Keep in mind, I am not a swinger, I have just been researching it for this time with you.
Things To Do:
Make very very sure that your partner is on the same place with you, if there is one. Don’t just come in one day and declare it, talk with him or her about it, think it through, and sleep on it, by all means. This is a very serious thing to embark upon and should be treated as such. This relationship’s swinging experience will only work if both of you are into it. If you start it and one isn’t into it, stop immediately and go home where you can regroup. It could be that it just isn’t for your relationship. Continue reading Swingers: Need to Know
There is absolutely nothing there to stop you having a good time sexually. There, it’s time someone said it. If you’re in a loveless marriage then get out of it and have some fun, you only live once you know and there are so many other things to enjoy. I offer this advice to you because I’ve suffered at the hands of fate and have since realised that I need to have a lot more fun than I was having. My wife of 15 years left me last year and to be perfectly honest I think it’s the best things she’s ever done for me. I didn’t do anything wrong apparently, we just drifted apart. I can see what she means actually, and I’m so glad she made the move. We speak often and get along very well as friends now.
I’m quite a sexual person and I have to admit if there was anything I missed about my marriage it was the sex. My wife was always pretty good in this department and I never had any reason to complain, however, since I’ve been single I’ve never had so much fun. I joined a UK sex contacts website to meet other people like me and to basically see what it was all about. I’ve never joined anything like this before; in fact I don’t think I’ve ever joined anything before to be perfectly honest!
This sex contacts site opened my eyes to a world of possibilities. At first I thought it would be populated primarily with hookers trying to charge me for sex once I meet them, but it really isn’t. I never dreamed there would be so many women out there looking for casual sex; I thought this was a man’s game to be honest.
The first woman I met was in her 40s and she was so hot I couldn’t believe my luck. When I was single before I’d have been lucky if a woman like this had even looked at me; I mean, to me this woman was grade A and I actually didn’t expect her to go through with it. However, it turned out that she really went for my type. I suppose I never had the confidence to realise that I was someone’s type, and if that certain someone happened to be very hot indeed then it’s all good. There is no accounting for taste, so they say. Suffice to say she was certainly my type!
We met in the lobby of a hotel in the city and decided to have a couple of drinks. She never even mentioned the sex part of it during our drinks, and I don’t think at that time she really realised I was a first timer at this. When we finished our drinks she simply stood and said: “shall we go to the room now?” in such a matter of fact way that it shocked me. It was then that she realised how new I was to the whole sex contacts business. She was very good about it all and explained how things happen usually. I had a fantastic time and have since seen her probably 15 times now.
This is an awesome little tale about the latest fun I had through the UK sex contacts network. There are loads of guys and girls looking for casual no strings sex out there and you just need to know where to go to find them. Don’t be put off or think that it’s all a scam because it most certainly isn’t; once you get involved in this thing you won’t want to get out of it, you meet some seriously sexy people.
This is where I met Anna the nurse. Well at least that’s what she told me she was when we first met. I met her in a hotel bar. I could tell who she was because I’d seen her online first and chatted a little. Not only that, but she was standing at the bar dressed in her nurses uniform. Now let’s get this straight, this wasn’t a sex uniform, this was a real nurses uniform, because as far as I knew she was actually a nurse.
One thing led to another and the conversation quickly went upstairs where she pushed me onto the bed and did a little strip for me. She lifted off her uniform and stood there in a pair of stockings, suspenders, with a tiny bra and panties. She looked awesome. However, it didn’t end there. Then she decided she needed to give me a little check up. She took off my clothes, took a stethoscope out of her bag and one of those devices to measure blood pressure. There I was laying there in nothing but my shorts, with a massive hard on, and this nurse giving me the once over observations in her underwear. I’ve never seen or experienced anything quite like it. It was going to be fun having sex dates with a nurse.
This is where it gets really rather strange however. It wasn’t until four sex dates in the relationship that this nurse revealed to me that she wasn’t a nurse at all, she just pretended to be for the purposes of sex. This was so hot. I actually think she thought I’d be put off or something because she was so apologetic when she told me. Why on earth would I be concerned about something as sexy as that, isn’t this every man’s fantasy, to be examined by a nurse in her underwear and then get fucked by her?
This was my first experience of real roleplay and I have to say that I absolutely love it. Now we take it even further. I sometimes pretend to be passed in my flat. I leave the door open and she walks by and notices me on the floor. Then she comes in and does the business to revive me; if you know what I mean. It has back fired on me before however, when my elderly neighbour came in and saw me on the floor pretending. When she stood over me I almost grabbed her.
I cannot stress this enough at the beginning of this little story; this is not a load of shite devised just to get you interested. I actually did this and I am recommending UK sex contacts because it is seriously one of the best websites in the world!
I met this girl called Kate through the sex contacts and she is as wild as a crazy badger man! I’ve had sex with her so many times in so many different places that I’m finding it hard to keep up. If she does the same with the other guys she screws then she must have some energy I’ll tell you that.
When you first join up with this site you get the impression that all the UK sex contacts you’re likely to meet are quite reserved and private about what they do and they do it secretly and in secret places etc. This is not true all the time, believe me! Kate is fucking crazy and she’ll do anything once. The first time I met her was at a bus stop of all places outside the place I was supposed to meet her.
She grabbed me by the arm before I could go into the bar and dragged me onto a bus. We chatted a little, she explained to me that she didn’t have any money and didn’t want to go drinking anyway, so she thought it would be nice to go for a walk. Considering it was November and it was 8.00pm I thought this was a little mad to be honest, and when I realised where we were heading it confirmed my suspicions that this girl was as mad as a hatter!
We got off the bus at the woods and she ran off into the darkness calling for me to follow her. I was a little more than turned on to tell you the truth. This was simply because I knew how dirty this girl could be from the conversations I’d had with her online. However there was a little bit of something in the back of my mind thinking ‘what if she has arranged for someone to rob me when I go in there?’
I paid it no mind when I remembered that she was wearing a little skirt and no tights. I imagined running my hands up those naked legs. When I walked into the darkness I entered the wood and before too long came to a small clearing where the moon could just about shine through the trees. There she was as naked as the day she was born, bending over a tree stump telling me to take her from behind. What a girl!
I have to say to cut this short a little, this is how it is most of the time with Kate; she is absolutely mad and when she wants to screw she simply drags me off somewhere bizarre and we do it. Thank heaven for the sex contacts!
My husband and I have been experiencing difficult sexually for the last 15 months and we’ve been looking into various ways to revitalise things in the bedroom but have failed miserably. It’s not that we don’t love each other anymore, or even that we’re no longer attracted to each other; it’s just that something has been missing. We managed to fill that gap however with UK sex contacts. We’ve been dating other people now for around three months and things have never been better. They say that some couples need this sort of adventure in their sex lives and we’re both beginning to understand just how important it is now.
It all began with my husband fooling around on the computer one night and coming across a UK sex contacts website that looked pretty interesting. He said that perhaps we should look into doing something like this together. He said it in that kind of way that appeared to be jokey to begin with, but he was clearly gauging my reaction. I told him I’d be prepared to give anything a go and joked that we’re not having sex with each other so we may as well do it with someone else! We filled out the introduction etc together that evening before we went to bed.
By the morning we had a number of requests to contact and chat etc. We found another couple on there who seemed just like us. They too said that they were experiencing difficulties in their sex life and they had decided to join this site because a friend told them that they allow couples to interact on it too. I had always thought that these sort of sites were for single people only; or at least those looking for single sexual encounters. After chatting with this couple online for a few weeks we actually decided to go for it and meet them in a hotel not far away.
When we met them we found them to be exactly the same as us. They were both nervous and both clearly still thinking about whether or not they were doing the right thing. I think this is why we all got on so well together. Not only was it the first time for all concerned, but it was clear and present in everyone’s mind that we were going to have sex. It’s amazing how this kind of realisation presents you with the ability to drop all of your inhibitions at just the right time. That night we booked a room and invited this new couple of join us for drinks and some pretty adventurous sex. That night was the first time I’d engaged in anything sexual with my husband for a long time. We thoroughly enjoyed it, and now when we’re alone at home we’re constantly recalling our nights out with other couples; it really gets us going in the bedroom!
My husband is crippled and unable to have sex anymore. It took a long time to adjust to not having sex and although it sounds like I’m being selfish, I have spent many years like this, unable to get myself sexual satisfaction. However, my husband is a good man, and he asked me about it, and actually assumed that I had been having sex elsewhere anyway. When I told him I hadn’t he was mortified and decided that the best thing I could do would be to get myself some form of sexual entertainment. We were always very liberated sexually, but I never thought I’d hear him saying this. I guess this is what love is?
We looked into sex contacts on the internet and found it quite popular and easy to get involved in. I didn’t really want to do anything special, just maybe feel a man against my body again. I wanted him to be a good man, yet someone who understood my problem and didn’t encroach on my private life with my husband. Well, as it turns out, this is exactly what the sex contacts websites all had in common; they encouraged you to simply have sexual relationships. I found a guy and I’ve managed to maintain a healthy sex life with him without putting any strain at all on my marriage. My husband and I are still intimate in some ways, but never to the level I get from my sex contact.
You must understand however, as much as I enjoy having sex with my contact, I do not love him at all. I care about him and know a little about it, but not much. This is my choice and I like to keep this distance between us. Not only does it allow my marriage to remain unaffected by silly details, it also makes the sexual encounters that little bit more thrilling; the guy still feels like a stranger and I’ve found that I like that a lot. Who says you need to have sex with your husband all the time to make a marriage work? We are very happy together and I honestly think that even if it wasn’t for the accident, we may well have looked into this kind of sex contact service as a couple anyway; it isn’t as if we haven’t experimented before.
Some people I’ve chatted to via the online sex contacts websites have many partners out there and they like to swap around a little every now and then. I can see the fun element of this, but personally I think that if I was to do this it might be pushing the boundaries of my marriage. I went into the sex contacts world to find one man who I could see occasionally for no strings sex and that’s what I got; I really don’t think I’d be interested in a string of lovers, I don’t have the time or the energy!