Curious married couple looking to spice up their sex lives with other contacts

My husband and I have been experiencing difficult sexually for the last 15 months and we’ve been looking into various ways to revitalise things in the bedroom but have failed miserably.  It’s not that we don’t love each other anymore, or even that we’re no longer attracted to each other; it’s just that something has been missing.  We managed to fill that gap however with UK sex contacts.  We’ve been dating other people now for around three months and things have never been better.  They say that some couples need this sort of adventure in their sex lives and we’re both beginning to understand just how important it is now.

It all began with my husband fooling around on the computer one night and coming across a UK sex contacts website that looked pretty interesting.  He said that perhaps we should look into doing something like this together.  He said it in that kind of way that appeared to be jokey to begin with, but he was clearly gauging my reaction.  I told him I’d be prepared to give anything a go and joked that we’re not having sex with each other so we may as well do it with someone else!  We filled out the introduction etc together that evening before we went to bed.

By the morning we had a number of requests to contact and chat etc.  We found another couple on there who seemed just like us.  They too said that they were experiencing difficulties in their sex life and they had decided to join this site because a friend told them that they allow couples to interact on it too.  I had always thought that these sort of sites were for single people only; or at least those looking for single sexual encounters.  After chatting with this couple online for a few weeks we actually decided to go for it and meet them in a hotel not far away.

When we met them we found them to be exactly the same as us.  They were both nervous and both clearly still thinking about whether or not they were doing the right thing.  I think this is why we all got on so well together.  Not only was it the first time for all concerned, but it was clear and present in everyone’s mind that we were going to have sex.  It’s amazing how this kind of realisation presents you with the ability to drop all of your inhibitions at just the right time.  That night we booked a room and invited this new couple of join us for drinks and some pretty adventurous sex.  That night was the first time I’d engaged in anything sexual with my husband for a long time.  We thoroughly enjoyed it, and now when we’re alone at home we’re constantly recalling our nights out with other couples; it really gets us going in the bedroom!