There is absolutely nothing there to stop you having a good time sexually. There, it’s time someone said it. If you’re in a loveless marriage then get out of it and have some fun, you only live once you know and there are so many other things to enjoy. I offer this advice to you because I’ve suffered at the hands of fate and have since realised that I need to have a lot more fun than I was having. My wife of 15 years left me last year and to be perfectly honest I think it’s the best things she’s ever done for me. I didn’t do anything wrong apparently, we just drifted apart. I can see what she means actually, and I’m so glad she made the move. We speak often and get along very well as friends now.
I’m quite a sexual person and I have to admit if there was anything I missed about my marriage it was the sex. My wife was always pretty good in this department and I never had any reason to complain, however, since I’ve been single I’ve never had so much fun. I joined a UK sex contacts website to meet other people like me and to basically see what it was all about. I’ve never joined anything like this before; in fact I don’t think I’ve ever joined anything before to be perfectly honest!
This sex contacts site opened my eyes to a world of possibilities. At first I thought it would be populated primarily with hookers trying to charge me for sex once I meet them, but it really isn’t. I never dreamed there would be so many women out there looking for casual sex; I thought this was a man’s game to be honest.
The first woman I met was in her 40s and she was so hot I couldn’t believe my luck. When I was single before I’d have been lucky if a woman like this had even looked at me; I mean, to me this woman was grade A and I actually didn’t expect her to go through with it. However, it turned out that she really went for my type. I suppose I never had the confidence to realise that I was someone’s type, and if that certain someone happened to be very hot indeed then it’s all good. There is no accounting for taste, so they say. Suffice to say she was certainly my type!
We met in the lobby of a hotel in the city and decided to have a couple of drinks. She never even mentioned the sex part of it during our drinks, and I don’t think at that time she really realised I was a first timer at this. When we finished our drinks she simply stood and said: “shall we go to the room now?” in such a matter of fact way that it shocked me. It was then that she realised how new I was to the whole sex contacts business. She was very good about it all and explained how things happen usually. I had a fantastic time and have since seen her probably 15 times now.
This is all about a fantasy of mine. My name is Gloria and I’ve been using the UK sex contacts online for a couple of years now, but in this little story I want to tell you about how I first used the website to fulfil one of my lifetime fantasies.
Now, I’m no spring chicken, I’m 45 years old and I’m recently divorced. This has nothing to do with my sex dating by the way; it has more to do with a husband who considered fucking hookers to be part of our agreement when we took our marriage vows. Well this housewife wasn’t having any more of it, I took him for a tidy penny and now I use it to go out and about and meet hot guys who want to screw me. Whoever said you can be too old for sex was an idiot; I’ll tell you this, if you start playing around with new men later in your life you’ll find that the sex is even more intense and satisfying.
So I’m not short of a penny or two. What do you think this allows me to do? Shopping! Yes! So I go shopping “a lot” and get up to what some people would consider strange activities when I’m doing it. You see, I usually arrange to meet one of my fuck buddies when I’m out and about, and sometimes even when I’m in a store.
My favourite place to do it when I’m out is in the fitting rooms of all my favourite shops. I’ve done it in Next, River Island and even Marks and Spencer a time or two! The know all the guys I meet very well now and all of them are just as into meeting and messing about in public as I am; it really is a tonic for all the cheating husband years I endured.
And none of this would be possible without using an online UK sex contacts network. The website I found made it very easy for me to get in contact with the guys that have now become very close friends (if you know what I mean). Everyone of them is really cool and very aware that I see other men all the time; no doubt they see other women all the time too, and quite frankly I’d rather it was this way, at least everyone is happy and having fun, everyone is open and honest, and no-one gets too possessive of anyone else. This is the way it should be and I intend to continue my internet sex contacts relationship for as long as my years are good to me; I think this could be a long time yet!
It’s not all about meeting new people when you begin sex contacts. When I joined up and started looking for sex contacts I slept with a lot of people, but now I only meet up with two. This is enough for me and I don’t need any more than that. Many people want to have as many as possible, but to me this defies the objective of the website. You can be on there all the time if you like, seeing as many people as you can, but if you do this you might end up with a lot of first night unrewarding experiences.
I find that once I’ve found someone, I try to hang onto him as long as possible simply because I know that once he gets to know my body and what I like, the sex will be fantastic; I’ve never been wrong yet. Those first time nervous sessions are rarely revelatory to me these days so I’d much rather just do them and get them out of the way. This is why I often go for a nice person who I can get to know as well as screw.
Now, this does tend to freak out a few men I’ve met in the past and that’s why it’s taken me so long to find these two dependable guys I have. I have them pretty much on tap when I want them and I love this feeling. Don’t get me wrong, I know they came from a sex contacts website and you simply have to accept the fact that these guys will never be faithful to you or anyone else; but then that’s not what you want is it? Otherwise you’d be on a regular dating site wouldn’t you?
The important part for me is getting the sex right. I’ve had other lovers through the sex contacts that just haven’t been able to do it how I like it, and to be honest, I’ve been brutally honest with them. I don’t believe in just not calling someone again and not telling them why; and in one particular case I had a guy come back to me for a one off to prove to me that he’d improved his technique. He certainly had, let me tell you. Sadly there wasn’t a space for him in my life at the time.
I like to keep them fresh however, so I do change them around a little now and again; but I will never be having sex with more than two guys at the same time, it’s just too much trouble trying to keep up. They get dumped for a number of reasons, but mostly it’s because they become a little demanding and want to see me more often than I do them. This is irritating and not what sex contacts should be like. It’s a way of life for me and a big part of my social activity.
My name is Alisha and I’ve been single for over three years now. The reason for this is quite simple. I don’t want to be controlled by anyone anymore, and I don’t want to even have to consider another adult in the decisions I make for myself on a day to day basis. Some might find this a little selfish, but as far as I’m concerned, I’m having a great time and I don’t require much at all.
The only thing I do require from a man and the only thing I really want and desire is sex. However, this little problem is easily solved now that I’ve joined a UK sex contacts website. Since I joined this site I’ve had all the sex I want, when I want, with none of the ties that usually come with it. There’s nothing worse than getting off with someone in a club at the end of the night and then doing something you’d rather not because you’re drunk. Then you wake the next day and just want to make it all disappear, only you can’t because they know your number or where you live. This doesn’t happen to me anymore. When I go out, I go out with my friends and I’m no longer interested in getting chatted up, or even meeting new men.
I have sex partners you see, and I can call on them whenever I need them. This is because I have more than one; I won’t go into how many I have because you might judge me as a little promiscuous! Suffice to say that I never go without when I want a bit of action. The guys I call aren’t always available however, and you must understand that if you’re going to get into UK sex contacts you must realise that the guys you meet will also have other women they see on a regular basis. If you’re not the jealous type then this shouldn’t bother you at all. Just make sure you always practice safe sex; you never know who isn’t these days and if you have multiple sex partners you need to think long and hard about how you behave.
Now when I’ve had a hard day at work I can come home, pour myself a glass of wine and call on one of my guys to see if he wants to meet somewhere for sex. It’s very straightforward. Sometime I meet in a hotel (this is usually for new guys who I don’t know so well), but sometimes I invite them back to my place or I go to theirs. I can do this safely because I know them very well; I’ve been using this service for a long time.
If you’ve ever considered putting men in their place and using them entirely for sex then join a UK sex contacts website and get yourself involved. It’s easy and once you get going you’ll make some very valuable and very sexy new friends.
Being married for as long as my wife and I have isn’t always as easy as they show you on the soap operas. When two people grow together their opinions of each other change and their tastes change too with the passing of time. To keep a relationship strong you have to evolve; well at least that’s what my wife and I have discovered. It may not be the same for everyone, and of course there are different ways in which we evolve, but for us it was sexually. Something had to change for us sexually because we were both getting a little bored with the same old routine. We wanted excitement and adventure.
We tried roleplay and meeting in hotels etc but it just seemed laughable because there was no anxiety attached to it, and no real adventure. It was then that we turned to UK sex contacts and realised that there were thousands of people out there, both in and out of relationships, that we all dying to revitalise their sex life and have a little fun with their free time. People don’t just want to go home and do the regular stuff every night; they might think they do, but let me tell you once you’ve tried doing something else completely different you’ll never look back. This is how it was with the sex contacts.
The first meeting we arranged was in the next town to us because we didn’t want to get seen. It was exciting just getting ready and not telling people where we were going etc; it felt like something secret and special and we were already both feeling very horny. We could have probably gone to bed with each other there and then as we got ready just from the excitement, but we decided to go through with it. And what an excellent decision it was. We both had a wonderful time with two of the best people we’ve ever met in our entire lives. They’d been using sex contacts for a long time and told us some amazing stories about their sex lives. It was wonderful to speak so frankly about sex with a couple who we barely new, and it was an excellent run up to what we were planning to do later in the evening. This is the thing that everyone who uses sex contacts says about it, that the pressure is completely gone because all parties involved know that there is sex on the menu for later on; that’s why you’ve met. It’s amazing how liberating it is to sit with your wife across a table with another couple and know that you’re going to be having sex with them later on in the evening.
I’m a plumber and despite what everyone cares to think about plumbers getting to have their wicked way with horny housewives it’s not true. I wish it was true because I’d have had a lot more action, but it’s not and that’s all there is to it. However, I do get a lot of action from my UK sex contacts website. I’ve been a member for over a year now and I’ve been persuaded to write down what I think of the whole thing to give you all a little insight from an old hand at it.
The whole thing is very easy to use, and this is what attracted me to it in the first place. The site looked really good and I was going through a particularly rough patch, having just split up from my wife after 10 years of marriage (that’s a story of its own!) I wanted a distraction and I needed to have sex, it’s as simple as that. The site gave me everything it offered and more. You think initially that it’s all going to be contacting through the site and paying money out all the time, but it really isn’t, and once you’ve met a couple of good sex contacts that you trust you can exchange contact information directly anyway.
The first few encounters were a bit weird to tell the truth, and to be perfectly honest I felt as though I should have paid the girls I met for sex! I know that sounds awful but there you go. Knowing what I know now about sex dating however, they probably thought exactly the same thing. The thing you need to remember is that both of you are after the same thing; sex. It’s simple once you get going!
Now I see quite a few different women on regular occasions and I’m so happy in my life that I couldn’t begin to describe it to you. Women are wonderful, but they are placed firmly in their place with the sex dating. They don’t bother your work, your social life or indeed anything else, and you only need to meet them for sex when you want to. You obviously need to maintain a respectful relationship with them, but it’s not heavy like a real relationship. To be honest with you, I don’t think I ever want another relationship as long as I live; I’ve got everything I need in my life at the moment and I’ve got it all just where I want it!
For anyone even considering sex dating I would say go for it. What have you got to lose? There are more women out there than you can possibly imagine and they all want to have sex with guys who feel the same way about relationships as I do. One thing is for sure, you will not meet anyone who wants to tie you down (figuratively of course, you may actually want to be tied down physically!)
My husband is crippled and unable to have sex anymore. It took a long time to adjust to not having sex and although it sounds like I’m being selfish, I have spent many years like this, unable to get myself sexual satisfaction. However, my husband is a good man, and he asked me about it, and actually assumed that I had been having sex elsewhere anyway. When I told him I hadn’t he was mortified and decided that the best thing I could do would be to get myself some form of sexual entertainment. We were always very liberated sexually, but I never thought I’d hear him saying this. I guess this is what love is?
We looked into sex contacts on the internet and found it quite popular and easy to get involved in. I didn’t really want to do anything special, just maybe feel a man against my body again. I wanted him to be a good man, yet someone who understood my problem and didn’t encroach on my private life with my husband. Well, as it turns out, this is exactly what the sex contacts websites all had in common; they encouraged you to simply have sexual relationships. I found a guy and I’ve managed to maintain a healthy sex life with him without putting any strain at all on my marriage. My husband and I are still intimate in some ways, but never to the level I get from my sex contact.
You must understand however, as much as I enjoy having sex with my contact, I do not love him at all. I care about him and know a little about it, but not much. This is my choice and I like to keep this distance between us. Not only does it allow my marriage to remain unaffected by silly details, it also makes the sexual encounters that little bit more thrilling; the guy still feels like a stranger and I’ve found that I like that a lot. Who says you need to have sex with your husband all the time to make a marriage work? We are very happy together and I honestly think that even if it wasn’t for the accident, we may well have looked into this kind of sex contact service as a couple anyway; it isn’t as if we haven’t experimented before.
Some people I’ve chatted to via the online sex contacts websites have many partners out there and they like to swap around a little every now and then. I can see the fun element of this, but personally I think that if I was to do this it might be pushing the boundaries of my marriage. I went into the sex contacts world to find one man who I could see occasionally for no strings sex and that’s what I got; I really don’t think I’d be interested in a string of lovers, I don’t have the time or the energy!